90 Days free from Masturbating to Pornography.

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  1. Thechosenone

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    Hey guys and girls! The day is here! I have reached 3 months free from porn and masturbation. This post will sum up my experiences of this journey in a decent amount of detail so read up and get ready for it!

    My routine 3 months ago:
    - edging constantly everyday.
    - surfing chatroom websites looking to flirt
    - very sedentary lifestyle
    - school grades were ok.
    - friendships were based on me self sacrificing or being beta to people to impress them.
    - watching a lot of TV
    - childish mindset, not understanding value of life.

    Now:
    - workout 3x a week
    - meditate 2x a day
    - eating more protein (i'm a vegetarian).
    - cooking new healthy foods with family.
    - good friendships with people.
    - intelligent conversations.
    - focussing on content of whats being said instead of person saying it.
    - appreciating sexuality, mine and ones of females.
    - being a badass in life is my goal.
    - my life has a direction.
    - not thinking about penis at all - its ridiculous how much i was messing with myself.


    I will create a few sections to write about in this journey; benefits, discoveries/ things ive learnt, how my journey can help you. To start off with here are the benefits I feel after staying clean from Masturbation and porn.

    Benefits:

    - Precise mind. My mind is much clearer and less foggy. Cognition improved.
    - Productivity. I'm able to focus on my school work and spend time doing that what matters. My teachers have noticed and have been in contact with me more, its great. I'm doing well in my thesis it's pretty much sorted.
    - Workouts. My Workouts leave me feeling good and strong, coupled with NoFap I feel more powerful and my body language is improved. a friend noticed i worked out
    - Social Anxiety gone. It's diminished significantly.I'm too focussed on building my badass life that I dont care for social anxiety anymore. I can go up to people and talk to them with my deep booming voice and enjoy every word I speak.
    - Deeper voice, I like the sound of my voice ;) Having that confidence makes it easier to talk to people.
    - Mental Maturity. My childish mindset is going, i'm maturing properly finally.
    - Transmutation. Knowing i'm not fapping and that giving me energy to use for other things is fantastic to feel. I feel i can take on challenges.
    - There are probably more benefits that are more subtle such as awareness and dp/dr going steadily.
    - Absense of anxious feeling after fapping, absense of shame.
    - Feeling more centered everyday. Enjoying music more talking to friends and helping out the family more.
    - Hypochondria is going. Less stupidly analytical.
    - Women have been noticing me more. I've had smiles, head turns, even a girl gave me her number during this process.
    - less phased by other challenges in life.


    Discoveries:
    There were a tremendous amount of discoveries along with this process for me. As you get used to racking up the days you'll get familiar with them. I.e. Now i reach 90 i can reach more, i'm familiar and used to a high day streak..

    - Masturbation drains you of your drive to complete tasks that'll be of benefit to you.
    - Porn warps the brains wants it offers a reward for nothing. Since I stopped fapping i've learnt to accept that some days will be good and others not so good. I dont need to medicate myself with porn anymore.
    - Reading books; Napolean Hills Outwitting the Devil and Nathaniel Brandons 6 pillars of self esteem are a MUST to read long this journey. Outwitting the devil will help you outwit your addiction.
    - Workout, you need to dissipate the excess energy on nofap so workouts help. Feel the pleasure of sweat as opposed to the false pleasure of pmo.
    - Have a definite purpose in life, this is the one thing that'll transcend you while on nofap. Have a goal, make it definite and work towards your vision. Helps to contextualise the feelings.
    - Let go of the outcomes or benefits of NoFap or even anything.
    - Plan your day, make a timetable to help.
    - keep a journal of your daily thoughts.
    - Make your aim to become a badass, dress like one, act like one, be one!

    Things you must do to achieve the benefits while on NoFap:
    - Read self help books, Outwitting the Devil, 6 pillars of self esteem, Willpower instinct
    - Meditation
    - NO EDGING!!
    - Use this forum to your discretion.
    - Autosuggestion practiced daily
    - Do things outside more, go study in a library not at home. Be outside more.
    - Install porn blockers to help you out
    - Stay commited - get an AP or create a Whatsapp group (helped me out tremendously cant emphasise this enough).
    - Let go of the end result, everyday is day 0.
    - Learn around the subject, look at other peoples experiences, watch videos etc.
    - Motivate yourself through this, write things down, do whatever you can.
    - Learn to accept bad feelings - meditation will help.

    A lot more coincidences have been taking place while ive been doing nofap. I feel the law of attraction taking place sometimes. Stay patient, let go of the end goal enjoy life. Enjoy life. Let go of the end goal, do the habits, stay with them, enjoy doing them, if they change how you look great but what matters most is how you feel. Do this for yourself, love and appreciate yourself and realise things out there are for you to enjoy while we spend this time on earth. If you look at the bigger picture it'll remind you we have limited time.

    This day number doesn't mean anything in the long run, what means anything is keeping the habits that serve you. I could be at day 0 but if i'm doing good things during my day I wont beat myself up. Act as if nofap does nothing for you, but instead its a catalyst to help you feel better, faster, when you pick up healithier habits - that's when you truly experience benefits.

    P.S read through my other posts if you want more specific details of my reboot process, and experiences.

    Sum up the process for me:

    Day 1 - 20, Getting Used to the streak
    Day 20-40 Feeling better day by day
    Day 40-60, withdrawals or rounding off of better feelings
    Day 60-70, great feelings, noticing attention from girls etc.
    Dat 70- 85, Somber back to reality thoughts.
    Day 85+ Feeling better day by day. looking forward to feeling benefits. Manifesting things.

    The days are relative, day 7 you will feel wow! day 27 you'll be used to those feelings. You're adapting to new feelings everyday, it just becomes a part of who you are. Transmutation.

    "The time will pass anyway you can either spend it creating the life you want or spend it living the life you don't want the choice is yours."

    Let go of outcomes. Revel in the process of bettering yourself. Aim for autonomy of healthy habits. Move on quick.

    Thank you - Thechosenone.
    Next major goal: 90 days no edging.
     
  2. Dir3ctX

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    Good job men, thanks for the extra enregy and drive
    i looked for!!!

    Keep doing the good job!
     
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  3. Peter Ghantous

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    Wow man. You inspire me to write my own detailed outline of my journey through nofap. I think it's amazing that you have transformed your life into something that can be desired and achieved by diligence and discipline. Keep up the great work, and strive on bro. Thanks for your post, as I truly believe that iron sharpens iron.
     
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  4. Thechosenone

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    You're welcome bro!

     
  5. Thechosenone

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    That's great man! It will help you in the long run to have a track record of how you feel! A daily journal has really helped me!

    You can do it bro

     
  6. I'm Spiderman

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    Congratulations and keep going buddy
     
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  7. Thechosenone

    Thechosenone Fapstronaut

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    Appreciate it Spidey

     
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  8. BushidoWarrior

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    Well done! I'm very impressed by your focused and consistent effort. Enjoy the rewards; you have earned them.
     
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  9. Thechosenone

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    Thanksfor the kind words brother I appreciate it!

     
  10. numpty

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    Congratulations to you my man

    Commiserations to me... I was just 24 days behind you lol!
     
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  11. Thechosenone

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    Keep with it man! Use what u learnt about the last streak to make the new one better

     
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  12. Thechosenone

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    Cheeersss
     
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  14. programer

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    Great work Pal. I love the Creative arrangement. Congratulations. Keep going On. Thanks for the Inspiring post.
     
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  15. volt2187

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    Another fantastic, inspiring post. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and I am happy to see another person positively changed by this!
     
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  16. Thechosenone

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    Thank you I'm glad its helping! I'm becoming more and mor my old self as the days go by

     
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  18. black_coyote

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    Thanks for sharing your valuable insights, man! Congrats and keep going :)

    cheers!
     
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