90 Days Later

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Balderdash

Fapstronaut
I'm not a new man exactly, I don't suddenly have a six pack and a handlebar moustache, and my record with girls is the same as when I started, but I no longer have any need to masturbate. At all.

That makes the whole thing worthwhile; at one point I was going at it seven or eight times a day. No more. It's out of my life.

Thanks NoFap, and especial thanks to IGY for his support.
 
You are welcome - it is nice to play a part in a success story like yours. I am really proud of you Balderdash :)
 
I hope the best for you my friend!
Don't forget to fight all the time !
I relapsed after 108 days i think i am ok an free but! After from 1 relapse i cant stop to relapsing!


PLEASE BE CAREFUL ALL THE TIME
 
Congrats dude! Glad to hear you have no urges to masturbate. That is incredible, we are proud of what you have accomplished.
 
Jimb0 said:
Congrats dude! Glad to hear you have no urges to masturbate. That is incredible, we are proud of what you have accomplished.
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Thanks; it's quite interesting, I'm cured of desire to masturbate, but there are all sorts of vestigial porn cravings in my head still. Masturbation is out for good, but I'm going to take longer to heal from the porn. Good luck to you! Expect a resurgence of all sorts of pornographic images in your head when you get to 90; I assume it must happen to other long term fappers too. Just stay strong and don't give in to them - you may not be as lucky as I have been in losing the desire to fap.
 
Guys i am not sure if it is the right place to ask the question - however in my opinion there is nothing wrong with wanking, what really is extremely destructive for our brains is porn. For now i am quitting porn, this was the initial intention going into this site, had no idea that somebody would want to quit fapping. As long as your brain is not exposed to hundreds of naked babes, there is nothing wrong with that.

I currently am in a distance relationship see my GF twice a month and for vacation. Sometimes I have to wank, just to sleep better, but since I have quit porn, I do not do it excessively.

Any comments, thoughts on quitting porn rather then fapping altogether? any constructive comment is much appreciated.

regards
 
redwak said:
Guys i am not sure if it is the right place to ask the question - however in my opinion there is nothing wrong with wanking, what really is extremely destructive for our brains is porn. For now i am quitting porn, this was the initial intention going into this site, had no idea that somebody would want to quit fapping. As long as your brain is not exposed to hundreds of naked babes, there is nothing wrong with that.

I currently am in a distance relationship see my GF twice a month and for vacation. Sometimes I have to wank, just to sleep better, but since I have quit porn, I do not do it excessively.

Any comments, thoughts on quitting porn rather then fapping altogether? any constructive comment is much appreciated.

regards
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Perhaps there might not be any problems with wanking, but what if you didn't have to wank at all? :)
 
Whether what you call, wanking, is good or bad for anyone else than you, is not something you can know, so why don,t you stop making pronouncements about what is good or bad in the lives of other people?
 
redwak said:
Guys i am not sure if it is the right place to ask the question - however in my opinion there is nothing wrong with wanking, what really is extremely destructive for our brains is porn. For now i am quitting porn, this was the initial intention going into this site, had no idea that somebody would want to quit fapping. As long as your brain is not exposed to hundreds of naked babes, there is nothing wrong with that.

I currently am in a distance relationship see my GF twice a month and for vacation. Sometimes I have to wank, just to sleep better, but since I have quit porn, I do not do it excessively.

Any comments, thoughts on quitting porn rather then fapping altogether? any constructive comment is much appreciated.

regards
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I'm pretty much sure there is nothing wrong with it too... IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE URGE TO DO IT 5 TIMES A DAY. I guess that when I recover from PMO addiction, I ever I M like six times a year there will be nothing wrong.
I also think that, in every cases, P is wrong.
 
fap addict said:
Whether what you call, wanking, is good or bad for anyone else than you, is not something you can know, so why don,t you stop making pronouncements about what is good or bad in the lives of other people?
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Hi fap addict, I respect where you're coming from and I know we need as much support as possible without feeling like people are questioning our personal goals.

However, I do feel that jimb0's comment was presented respectfully and thoughtfully, with openness to any challenges on his belief. Therefore, I do think that he did not mean to be telling others what they should think, but he was actually asking whether his thinking made sense; and if not, why not. I find this type of discussion extremely constructive, and in fact I think it is important to help users like this continue to feel welcome so as not to be without a place to find support for his own struggles. And I do believe that even though he doesn't seem to feel the same as many of us about MO, he does face a very real challenge with P that is within the spirit of the purpose of this place.

Thanks!
 
Hi Balderlash. Congratulations! But take the advice from a guy who got to 101 days of sobriety until a few days ago: don't get overconfident. My mistake was to think that this was "over". I even stop commenting in the forum. I suggest that you continue here at least a little longer.

Regarding the other question, to M or not to M, once that you have get rid of porn? I believe that depends on each individual, their values and their personal stories. For me, I know that if I start fapping again, a few days later I'll resume my old porn habits and I don't want that, at all.

My last two relapses (after 101 days, and 5 days after that) were just MO, but I was sure that if I continued through that path I'd be at the same place where I was before discovering NoFap.org.
 
Thank you for your question. I don't think there is anything wrong with masturbation alone unless you have an addiction. You are addicted when you find that it interferes with your life, or you feel like you have a loss of control over your body constantly. This is my two cents. :)
 
Fantastic story. Even though these success stories are from years ago, when NoFap just started, these still ring true today. I am sure we can gain inspiration from the first Fapstronauts who accomplished their goals of NoFap and that it is possible to get away from PMO. Amazing.
 
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