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90 Days NoFap - join me on journey

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by AdamPeterWUK, Jun 20, 2015.

  1. I've just completed 90 days NoFap, and want to re-commit myself to the next 90 days - if you want to join me, please do!

    I recognise that whilst it is fantastic for me to have achieved the first 90 days, for me to re-wire my brain so that it doesn't have the desire for porn and/or my fetish, then it will require at least this 90 days, and it might take up to a year before it has gone. I know that it is still there, because just 3 days ago I got very close to breaking my NoFap, and in fact have changed the parameters of what NoFap means for me in response.

    I'm inspired by the TEDx YouTube video "The great porn experiment" by Gary Wilson:

    I'd highly recommend watching it.

    So please join me on this journey. It's a great ride of life :)
     
  2. I want to re-commit myself to 90 days of Nofap.I some good streaks going from 10 days to 13 days.I have admired your strength and tenacity to go for 90 days.I know you can go another 90 days.I know that I can reach there eventually but I wont give up no matter what.

    I am in 90 days it's going to be one hell of a challenge.
     
    Last edited: Jul 12, 2015
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  3. @Kurapika 2 and @The 1000 Water Fists welcome on board! Great to be with you again on this journey.

    I've just done something that 100 days ago, I would have struggled massively with: I spent a whole evening in the office with working on my laptop with no filter on the computer. And I felt no temptation to Fap! What an amazing feeling :) AND I know I still have to continue working at this....!

    Love to you all :)
     
  4. Kamin75

    Kamin75 New Fapstronaut
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    I am in with you! I just started recently, but I've realized this is maybe the most important thing I can do for myself. This will be my first 90, and like you I think it may take me longer, but I'll never get there if I dont start he process. And life is short, I want to make sure I get there before it passes me by. I'm thinking to only abstain from Porn and masurbation, but to leave in sex. My goal here is to retrain my brain to have a better relationship with my own sexuality and women in general. I can't see why sex with a woman would get in the way of that, @AdamPeterWUK can you think of any reason given your 90 day experience why it might be better to abstain altogether?
     
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    steamtwex New Fapstronaut

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  6. Welcome @steamtwex and @Kamin75! For me sex with women is healthy, I don't find it compulsive, it feels totally different to my relationship with porn and in fact can be healing for me. You know yourself best: maybe describe here how you feel about sex with women, and if that contrasts to porn?
     
  7. Hellen sam

    Hellen sam Fapstronaut

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    Hey man i am starting 90 day challenge today cause i have understood that porn is not an option.Support me please....
     
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  8. Welcome on board the good ship NoFap @Hellen sam! Keep checking in, and I'd highly recommend watching the video at the start of this thread. Adam
     
  9. RHow's everybody doing. I've been connecting with my inner child this weekend. It's not been easy, but I'm happy that I'm allowing myself to be feeling the sensation that comes with getting closer to the wounded child that is in me
     
  10. Rm1999

    Rm1999 Fapstronaut

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    I'm in, my longest streak was 6 months
     
  11. @Rm1999 - welcome on board! It's interesting: I had a vague desire to check some Fap search terms on Twitter just a moment ago... and then decided to get on here and respond to you instead. I'm just over 3 months in now, and my aim is to do 12 months.

    Love to you all!

    Adam
     
  12. I'm tightening up my search terms restrictions to help myself. It is to include the word 'naked'. I've just used that search term looking for a celeb, I didn't look at any pages directly, but it's a slippery slope.

    I'm not feeling great, and I know that this is prompting my desire to hide in porn.
     
  13. I was at my nadir when I sent the last post and it feels great that I didn't go any further and that I can keep myself NoFap :)
     
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  14. Feeling tempted to Fap. I know that it will drain me if I do. So I'm posting to here, then going to do one the activities that really helps me (Lightning Process), then finish the first draft of a proposal, then out for dancing and seeing friends!

    Thanks for being my witness for NoFap!

    Love, Adam
     
  15. treebythewater

    treebythewater Fapstronaut

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    I'm in! Let's do it!
     
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  16. Brilliant @treebythewater! Looking forward to being on this beautiful journey of self discovery with you.

    I've had a great weekend. Yesterday I felt a little triggered as I wasn't nourishing myself well. I then realised this, and pulled myself out of it, and today I've been feeling great after working with myself to do what is good for myself.

    Hope you are all well!

    Adam
     
  17. treebythewater

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    Thanks for the kind message! I feel pretty good right now. Sundays are always great because I'm with friends and my community. Still going to be proactive - as I am at home right now, in my bedroom where all the bad stuff usually goes down. Keep on fighting and I will too!

    Tim
     
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  18. Kashif mohammed

    Kashif mohammed Fapstronaut

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    I'm in guys I hope I complete this challenge and find peace
     
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  19. Hellen sam

    Hellen sam Fapstronaut

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    Guys i just jerked off after 6 days and felt what i lost.Starting again and surely this time for 90 days.Please support!!Thanks
     
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