90 + days on NoFap and now....

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by differentoutlook, Mar 19, 2018.

  1. differentoutlook

    differentoutlook Fapstronaut

    I don't want to make this too long, but I've changed the way of living on December 10. 2017 when I finally understood the effects that pornography had on my life. Erectile dysfunction, low to 0 excitement in life overall and performance anxiety due to the fear of not being able to get it up. and I'm only 18. I cut out all virtual sources of arousal I used to masturbate to. my plan was to have nothing sexual, including real life encounters until march, due to the remnants of the performance anxiety.
    in short, I had sex a couple of times while drunk and high from the period of 31st December to February 9th. nothing since then. I've basically dated every girl I liked in my circle and I don't really like anyone at my university. but I'm dying to have sex and it's getting overwhelming. if I find someone who's satisfying looks wise and has a decent personality I know it will end my problem.. so any thoughts or advices ? honestly I just needed a platform to share my situation.. everything turns me on now tbh so what do I do in the meantime before I find my next date..

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