90 days without Porn - Shemale Recovery

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Joe92, Mar 9, 2019.

  1. g2stop

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    I try not to feel guilt or shame anymore when I relapse. I say to myself “I forgive you and I will looked after you and we will beat this together”
     
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  2. Joe92

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    Great ! We have to be our own best friend in this !
     
  3. kruznick

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    Hey Brother! I've been in the same hole you were in as well. I've been free of porn for about 3-4 months now. I never relapsed on porn but I always relapse on MO. Anyway glad to see you're doing good!
     
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  4. Joe92

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    Thanks Bro, hope you benefit a lot from your porn abstinence. I don't personally think that MO is wrong in itself if it doesn't bring you back to porn.
     
  5. kruznick

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    Absolutely agree with you on that. For me it's more about building some discipline with regards to my sexual activity. I've found that exercising restraint has just greatly helped my personal growth and self esteem.
     
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  6. Joe92

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    I'm on my 197th day today and my life is incomparably better than it was ! I feel way more confident, attractive, lovable. I feel like a man again. Keep fighting brothers it's worth the struggle. You can't even imagine.
     
  7. Good Job Man!
    Keep it up!
     
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  8. Great post my friend you really have grown. Continue to build a solid foundation within yourself and help those around you.
     
  9. mjones050505

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    Thank you. I needed this, right now...
     
  10. arkad1

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    That's great, i'm happy for you.

    I wanted to ask, how much was it for one hour of psychotherapy?
     
  11. Joe92

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    50 euros
     
  12. Tim88933

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    Thank you for this post. I honestly related to so many things in this and its nice to see im not the only one. Ive been struggling with ed and questioning my heterosexuality because of this addiction. Those two factors made it click for me. Ill be starting my journey today
     
  13. Gladiatori

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    @Joe92 "Understanding our reactions and psychological patterns when we relapse, I think, is one of the major key to break this addiction. What part of yourself do you want to escape binging in porn ? Which emotions ?"

    Nice wisdom here. Basically all addictions function is to cover up emotions so we dont feel em.

    We could say modern society is generally sick.

    Porn massively distributed for free is a symptom of this massive illness, not an illness in itself.
     
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  14. arkad1

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    That's too much :D
     
  15. FrenchOliver

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    keep up bro
     
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  16. Jerky

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    When i first discovered shemale porn i was disgusted but i kept going back to it. As time past it became more and more attractive. I've never been intersted in sex between a man and a woman. Lesbian sex was my go to. From there it was shemale solo videos and eventually shemale on shemale. I would MO and be disgusted. Over time it was all i could look at. I longed to be with a shemale goddess. That was my fantasy. Nothing else worked for me.
    I couldn't bear it anymore and im glad to not have it in my life today.
     
  17. Fuséé

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    Hello Joe 92,
    How are you know do the fantasies go out ? Are you still attracting by shemale porn ? do your brain reboot ? And do you like girl like before ?

    Thank you for response

    I wish you all the best
     
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  18. Joe92

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    These fantasies definitely fade away... I'm great man. I have a new girlfriend that I love and I'm still attracted by girls, more than ever.

    I've quitted medication which I've been under for a year now (antidepressors). 3 weeks without any pill and I feel great, New work, new woman, new life ! And No Porn : day 233 !!!!

    Don't give up !!!
     
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  19. kingbob3

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    Day 22.

    After getting acquainted and in a habit of not consuming any filth, consuming self harming substances in short meeting my goals, yesterday I finally started making some progress of the task which I actually want to do but was procrastinating since very long. I felt the energy and enthusiasm while pursuing my hunch, the inner call which was saying to me that I must be doing this, since very long. Today is day 2, of my other habit which I want to develop, which demands a lot of my focus, long hours of focus and perseverance.
    Well, from my nofap journey I have learned this that focus is a skill and this can be learned and accordingly be used to one's pleasure. Especially when you are young. Just like I keep distance from the potential triggers which can eventually end me up with a relapse, I need to be disciplined enough to be focused and do what I am supposed to do as opposed to what is easy. So its a skill, I have ample store of energy especially sexual energy, I just need to channelize this energy to make a new habit and slowly steadily with time my this new habit will start providing me dopamine, and thats the ambition I want to create my own habit which gives me dopamine rather than regular filthy habits in which maximum of the crowd is struggling.
    Dopamine is extremely important harmone for existence of humans, it gives us a sense of purpose for living and since our forefathers have been practicing reproduction, naturally we will get dopamine if we reproduce, thats the sole reason behind our natural inclination towards our opposite gender, their body parts and exploration fantasies and with the advent of the technology that pristine human connection get swapped to the pixels, which is self harming. So we are born with this instinct. Its a basic instinct of a human being. But we can control these instincts and achieve what so ever we desire, just through discipline.

    “Discipline weighs ounces and regret weighs tons.” - Jim Rohn
     
  20. Alfonsus

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    I admire your discipline and the postive changes you've made. I hope that someday I will also be free from the fantasies about this genre
     
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