A 15 year old in need of help, I’m lost

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ynw_melly123, Dec 21, 2019.

  1. Ynw_melly123

    Ynw_melly123 New Fapstronaut

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    hello as I mentioned I’m 15, I started watching porn when I was 11 normal porn, at 13 something I started watching shemale porn idk why, it disgusts me at this point, at 14 I started questioning my sexuality as I couldn’t get hard to normal porn or anything, but saw that I’m 100% straight and only love girls company. So I’m 15 and I haven’t watched porn for a month now, I had no urges or anything thoughts of shemale porn disgust me. I have no sex drive, no morning woods, no random Bonner’s and I can’t get horny. I got a girl and the first couple times I saw her I would get really hard at random times, then that started happening less and less, we tried sex 5 times but I couldn’t get hard I love hooking up with her or fingering or eating her out. But can’t get hard no sex drive, she blew me but it wouldn’t get all hard and as soon as she stopped it would go soft and wouldn’t go up no matter what. And I felt no pleasure I couldn’t even cum on my first time this makes me so depressed I want my sex drive back I want to be able to get hard like everyone else and enjoy sex:/. Plz help somone I’m willing to do anything. I’m seeing her again this week and what can I do to get hard she really want do do this
     
  2. StonePlacidity

    StonePlacidity Fapstronaut

    Is it true love? I believe it is lust, and you shouldn't be having sex this early in your life. Focus on studies that could potentially make your life better, not instant gratification from sex and orgasm.

    Remember, our dick exist for reproduction purpose.
     
  3. JestfulPotion57115

    JestfulPotion57115 Fapstronaut

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    Hey dude, what you have is called PIED, porn induced erectile dysfunction and its caused by desensitisation of your brain to a real person. With a real person you have to work for sex, but with porn there's no work so your brain shuts down the part that responds to real sex because your brain see that as too much work, it would rather watch porn. PIED takes time to clear, you're gonna need to allow yourself some time to heal, could be a month or even more. You can't rush these things. Short term fixes aren't great, work on the long term and I know thats hard to take cause I know when I was 15 I didn't wanna hear about long term fixes but it is what it is.
     
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  4. Go All The Way

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    First off props to you for recognizing how bad porn is for you this early in your life. I was 22 when the realization really struck me and I really wish I had those years back.

    I'm gonna tell you what I know you don't want to hear, but you need to hear it. It's going to take more than a month to get yourself set straight. Since you're young and haven't been watching porn for that long it shouldn't take as long as a lot of the guys on here, but one month just ain't gonna cut it. I know you want to have sex with your girl next week but you gotta face the reality that that's most likely not going to happen. It's still good to be physically intimate - kissing, cuddling, etc. but you'd do best to just wait another month or 2 to try having sex again.
     
  5. Ogikubo

    Ogikubo Fapstronaut

    Dude, you are really living dangerously. I am going to sound very hypocritical here, because I wanted sex so bad at your age, but trying to have sex at 15 is really dumb. It won't last. You are not in love. I bet you feel guilty about it as well. But if you are going to try it, you had better have condoms with you.
    As above, you have watched too much porn. As above, it may take pretty long time to get a proper erection again.
    I wish when I was 15 someone had slapped me silly about porn and sex. The porn in particular fucked up my whole life. If you think it is bad now, dude, just wait until you are older. Get help if you need it but stop the porn immediately. As for the sex, no one is going to babysit you, but I think you are playing a losing game at the moment. Sorry if this is harsh but you really need to wake up.
     
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