A depressed newbie of 24 years old

Hi Peaceisalwayspeace, welcome here, and wishing you loads of strength and good luck on your journey to quit porn. If you managed 2 months and 20 days in the past, I am sure you can do so again, and hopefully break with porn for good.

 

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There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help youalong on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!

 

Well come bro, 2 months plus is already a benchmark.... I am also new here... Just on 12th day after relapse... Kepp going

 

2 month and 20 days is a fine achievement, more than most guys could manage, so be proud of yourself, don't knock it!

About the motivation thing; What was it that you hoped to gain from NoFap? For example, you could set a goal to do more sports or spend more time socialising, or maybe try and organise a date with someone each month?
When you spend less time in front of the computer and less time masturbating, you have more free time on your hands and more energy to do stuff.
I feel it is always easier to keep up the motivation when you have some clear goals about what you want to do/achieve in your spare time, otherwise its just too easy to stay at home get tempted to masturbate again (well it is for me!).
My personal goals are to spend less time in bed, spend more time socialising and hopefully improve my energy levels and hair growth!
Did you have any goals you'd like to share?

 

Thats great. I think many of us spend a lot of time sat at a computer nowadays, more so than any other time in history so the ease of access to adult material makes PMO all the more tempting.
Spending more time outside/excerising/socialising is definitely a good strategy and of course it much easier to quite an unhealthy habit if we can replace it with new habits that bring us enjoyment and is also good for us. It sounds like you have that all sorted out.

 

Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

Here is just some advice:

First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!