A dream about my nasty shemale fetish.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by topbwoydiss, Sep 23, 2017.

  1. Guys! I thought this shit waa supposed to start disappearing... Today at 5AM when I was still sleeping, I had a dream about a sex scene between a shemale and a female and also just a bunch of other sex scenes that involved blow jobs, fucking (man and woman) etc, It was nasty, but once again it felt as if I was going to relapse to it.


    - By the way, this is the second sex dream I had since I started the 'No PMO' for life.

    - I'm currently on day 13 without PMO.
     
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  2. Flyhigh

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    Sexy dreams are pretty normal at the start of reboot.
     
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  3. nofepper

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    It's normal, you're at start, cravings start to reduce after about 30 days of noFap, here is list what's happen with you during noFap:

    • 5 minutes - heart rate returns to normal.
    • 2-3 days - guilt and shame seems to decrease.
    • 7 days - brain fog lifts.
    • 14 days - prolactin starts to drop.
    • 14 - 21 days - due to drop in prolactin, dopamine sensitivity increases, you can start to enjoy the little things in life again, no longer emotionally numb, energy levels start to increase big time, confidence also increases.
    • 30 days - cravings and flashbacks noticeably reduce.
    • 30-60 days - PIED symptoms disappear or improve. Erections become rock solid, unless you're PIED symptoms are severe. Confidence keeps rising
    • 42 days - ΔFosB (DeltaFosB) that has accumulated around the nucleus accumbens starts to remove itself. This makes it possible for the neurons in the porn-addicted pathways to now start to slowly break up over time without use.
    • 90 days - considered a full reboot for most people, however people with severe PIED will need longer. Confidence still rising
    • 120 - 150 days - symptoms of severe PIED disappear or improve
    Just to say, i am now day 42 and i now fetishes should start with removing from brain. You need to go also min 90 days without PMO, i know it's hard but after first 3-4 weeks urges are gone and it should be easy to reach 90 days.
     
  4. Flyhigh

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    Wow 42 days was my best streak ever.
     
  5. jest

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    I think that the wet/sexual dreams we have during the reboot are actually our minds "cleaning house".

    In other words, once I dream of something, it's usually very specific and then I wake up with that specific thought in my head but it's rare for me to dream about the same thing again - so maybe it's my brain attempting to erase or overcome that particular unwanted fetish.

    Perhaps these dreams are a crucial part of the rebooting process.
     
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  6. Sadly we can't control our dreams. So when you're withdrawing, you can expect your mind to attack you there, where you have least power. I find reminding myself of that was useful though. There's nothing I can do about It and, while it can be intense, the mental SHOCK goes away in an hour or too.

    Maybe it would be useful, for a while, to routinely do something constructive for your mind, even for 10 mins, straight after you wake up. Coming here for example, Or playing a game on your phone or something. Something to refocus.

    Echoing a previous comment, it'll happen less over time. We seem largely to dream about things that are on our minds, and as PMO and fetishes retreat to the past, you'll start dreaming about hanging out with the golfer John Daly in Vegas, or whatever.
     

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