My boyfriend of two and a half years now has been addicted to porn since I can remember. He used to watch it three to four times a day for an hour or so each time. Since then I had a serious talk with him and we agreed that he would only watch it once a day to limit his porn usage. A month ago, I asked him if he would limit it to once a week or sometimes two to three days depending on circumstance (I'm not home etc.) and after some arguing, he finally agreed. Now see, I don't have a problem with porn itself, but the frequency is just not healthy (in my opinion). I personally don't care for it so I don't watch it. But alas, he agreed to do it only once a week then I found out (multiple times over the month) that he had really still been doing it everyday, if not more than once a day and again for hours. I have already told him how hurtful it is to our sex life (he turns me down but I have never turned him down since we have sex so infrequently), my self confidence, and how it makes me feel as if I'm not enough because even if we do have sex, he has already watched porn before and he watches it after...The last few times I tried to bring up that he wasn't doing what he promised he accused me of nagging and says I'm lying when I think he hasn't even tried to put an effort in. But honestly, there is not ONE day where he hasn't watched it and I'm practically begging him to have interest in me and just put the porn down for one day and just look at me but nothing works (lingerie, telling him its an addiction, telling him how I feel about it). And he just lies saying he hasn't watched it and I don't know how to deal with it anymore like I'm just sad and worried about him watching it all the time and I don't want to live my life that way while simultaneously not arousing him enough to be the only thing on his mind. And I'm finding it harder to bring up with him because he makes me feel like I'm the one to blame and like I'm asking for the most outlandish thing. And I don't even know if he won't reduce his viewing because he tried and can't and won't even bother.