A hard matter

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Lor94, Aug 3, 2018.

  1. Lor94

    Lor94 New Fapstronaut

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    Ho everybody!
    I've been struggling with porn for two years now and i'm still not out of It despite very long streaks(5 months or more). Still, masturbating in a compulsive way got me a huge problem. Premature ejaculation. Something i did not have before using porn. The thing has come to the point i ejaculate in a matter or seconds with my GF and It really Kills any serious sexual encounter... The question is... Is masturbating every two days without porn a good way to train the Little John to last longer? Other tips? The matter is killing me and i seriously thought that masturbating could be a necessary evil ti get my sexual Life back...
     
  2. ClassyKing

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  3. GaryMayor

    GaryMayor Fapstronaut

    Dude, you are trying to lie to yourself. Masturbation to cure effects of masturbation? You need to stop such things immediately!
     
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  4. Heavens no. M-ing does nothing but train your mind to respond to your hand. Then fills your brain with dopamine that makes you crave more action. Saving up your urges for real life will help. M-ing is a futile act.
     
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  5. Daniel stops

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    Why not try to have more sex after the first time? You can't tell me that you still come after 2 seconds when having sex 5 times in a row :D
     
  6. ReadyToStop

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    I recommend doing it twice, if your partner is patient enough. The second time is the charm. Also, condoms help keep you from finishing early.
     
  7. ClassyKing

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    If you train the muscle enough you can forcibly stop yourself from cumming so you can last longer in bed
     
  8. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    I lasted longer in bed
     
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  9. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    I dont know why your lashing out at me over something that is scientifically proven to work. You can google kegel exercises, and it tells you the benefits of them. It's a muscle in your body just like your abs and biceps. I agree it doesn't happen in a month, but with enough work it becomes beneficial.

    Instead of belittling me by calling me a special snowflake, you can go online, and try and inform me if I'm wrong, but I doubt I am.
     
  10. ClassyKing

    ClassyKing Fapstronaut

    @GhostWriter here:
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4003840/

    And if you still dont believe it, here is another:
    https://www-innovativemen-com.cdn.a...h-blog/how-to-deal-with-premature-ejaculation

    I understand that you would be upset over people giving advice that doesn't solve a problem, BUT your insinuating the problem the OP is having is psychologically when its actually a physical problem. He clearly states
    His problem started after he stopped using porn, it wasn't caused by it.
     
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  11. ReadyToStop

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    Guys. You're arguing about Kegels. Let's take it down a notch. We're all trying to help one another.
     
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  12. Lor94

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    Well so from the huge thing that emerged from my question... Kegel exercises are not useful to prevent PE? I bought a pack of desensitizing condoms for now... but things is to me, i never suffered from it, actually i could last a lot, and even after 5 months of NoFap i ejaculated very fast. So... is it a brain problem?
     
  13. Lor94

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    Also if you guys think of it, when you M on a video you do try to reach ejaculation very fast, or at least it was like this to me, so could this be a way i set my brain to work? I mean it is like a behaviour problem to me, that's why i thought i had to set it back to factory mode by using M again.
     
  14. Immature

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    It's a good thing.

    In the past you lasted longer because you had conditioned yourself to need the extreme mental stimulation of porn, and the harder physical stimulation of your hand in order to come. After 5 months of not doing any of that, you are naturally much more sensitive. That's why you are coming fast. At your age it should not be very long before you can have another erection. And while you are waiting, there are other things you can do to keep your girlfriend occupied.
     

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