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A New Mindset

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by LightningBolts, Oct 13, 2017.

  1. LightningBolts

    LightningBolts Fapstronaut

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    So I have been thinking and I think I found the answer to how I am going to create that one long NoFap streak that will hopefully kill my addiction forever. During high school all I could think about was trying to find a girlfriend. I wasted so much time doing this it isn't even funny. In fact its quite embarrassing. So one day I thought to myself "Why am I wasting my time trying to find a girlfriend when I know I am going to get hurt in the end?" Well 8 months later I am happy being single. If a really nice girl comes along that I have interest in one day then yeah I will go for her but I am not going to search for one. I am just going to let it happen and I wont care if it doesn't. Yes I do struggle trying not to always look at girls but that's quite normal. So getting to my point. I have come up with a method to defeat my addiction and its very similar to the girlfriend method I mentioned in this article.

    THINK
    ABOUT
    THIS

    Why am I wasting my time looking for a good porno to jack off too when I could be studying for that test in math tomorrow or applying for that one job I really wanted.

    Here's another thought......

    Every time you watch porn you are lying to yourself. In reality you are never going to fuck that girl in the video you are watching so what's the point of watching it when your just going to lose the euphoria as soon as your done ejaculating.

    See you could be doing so many things that are WAY better then that freaking video. I know I am one to talk because I struggle with this every single day of my life and you don't think I ask myself what I am actually doing? So starting tomorrow I am going to implement this method and I am going to push myself even further then ever before. Instead of starting out with the 7 days NoFap challenge on NoFap, I am going to really challenge myself. This time around I will be starting with 14 days of NoFap. Its going to be a journey but with this mindset now in place I believe that my percentage of winning this challenge just went from like a 20% chance to a 70% chance. It all starts with the porn is a waste of time mindset.




     
    Last edited: Oct 13, 2017
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  2. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    best of luck . we are with u . glad to see u have found ur simple practival doable ways to tackle/stop pmo .

    this is always encouraging to all of us.
     
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  3. Thomas1987

    Thomas1987 Fapstronaut

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    I'm dying hair and getting a piercing at each milestone :) (e.g. 45 days, 60 days, 75 days)
     
    Last edited: Oct 13, 2017
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