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A Progressive Challenge-A different kind of challenge- all levels

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by DerNeuMann, Nov 13, 2017.

  1. Lapirata48

    Lapirata48 Fapstronaut

    Hi guys. Had streaks of 6 and 8 days recently. So, if I'm understanding this thread correctly I'm setting a mini-goal of 10 days. Today is day zero. Zero is my favorite math number but not so much in this context. Today marks 0/10.
     
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  2. Ezpz

    Ezpz Fapstronaut

    Welcome!

    What are you going to do differently with this streak? Did you learn anything from your last relapse?

    looking forward to seeing you hit 10 days!
     
  3. Birdie

    Birdie Fapstronaut

    Abstaining from this forum is kind of a new idea. Even though I thought about it I haven't heard that from anyone else. I am already abstaining from all of my other social media accounts.
    It is told YouTube also is not of much help, when you abstain from Nofap you pretty much use your phone for calling. How do you manage that situation? Should we need to know the progress others are making?
     
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  4. Birdie

    Birdie Fapstronaut

    I am leaving this thread guys. One thread at a time.
     
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  5. Ezpz

    Ezpz Fapstronaut

    The nofap forum is a great tool, just like the internet. While a day journal is great, many of us focus on it to much and instead of using the time we take off porn constructively, we end up just using that time instead on this forum, often becoming obsessed, or other distractions like youtube or netflix.

    When you are offline you are forced to go out and do other things, which is the goal for each of us, ultimately.

    I have porn and the nofap forum forever blocked on my phone and only allow myself to use the forum on my computer. I don't use social media on my phone, i usually only use my phone to run my business.
     
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  6. Birdie

    Birdie Fapstronaut

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    That's a great strategy. I'll try that when I reach 30 days of abstinence. It
     
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  7. stephanD

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    0/1 – not a bad relapse, determined not to binge, but still a relapse. I'll try and write more later.
     
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  8. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    I'm on day 91 of 365 going to 180 first then 275 / on abstinence contract hardmode pmo with my wife, God's decision and my wife's choice is when we will resume sex. Have a bit of a headache this morning I take Gaba Chasta tree for libido reduction Focus Factor three times a day except for chaste tree. It really helps me stabilizedoesn't make me go one way or the other especially I work my way off ofantidepressants doing this for anybody out there would that struggle also off ofADHD meds which is a big plus my penis size has doubled very pleased withthe results will continue boner woke me up pointedto the coffee machine and here we are good morning all
     
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  9. Lapirata48

    Lapirata48 Fapstronaut

    Thank you. Been thinking about that. I have several options.

    1) Go for a walk
    2) Take a shower
    3) Read a section of Proverbs
    4) If I'm in the car tune into the Christian station
    5) Turn away immediately
     
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  10. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    Put Icy Hot on it and slap it with a ping pong paddle LOL draw a little puppet face on it and let it look at you and say I own you
     
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  11. TC10

    TC10 Fapstronaut

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    Get it together and remember that the most important thing is that you don’t quit. This can be your last relapse!
     
  12. Leaveit

    Leaveit Fapstronaut

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    Day 48/60..
     
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  13. Rocky11234

    Rocky11234 Fapstronaut

    I am so much depressed , my life has become hell.

    I PM day before yesterday 2 times, today also did for 2 times.

    I am not able to get sound sleep, every day i feel headache all the time.
    Totally frustrated with life.
    Please anyone suggest me how to lead a good life.
     
  14. DerNeuMann

    DerNeuMann Fapstronaut

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    This is such great news. And a very encouraging post. Congratulations!
     
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  15. DerNeuMann

    DerNeuMann Fapstronaut

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    It's very understandable and easy to become discouraged. Those who get past two or three months and then start pmo again often have a very difficult time with repeated relapse. Your brain/body has now learned what you're planning and how you are doing it but it wants its dopamine overdose. One has to start over like a beginner and go two days, then four then maybe a week and slowly rebuild streaks. Try not to be discouraged and try to strengthen your resolve and get busy with things that make pmo difficult to do. This is not a magic bullet that will help instantly but it will help.
     
    Last edited: Jun 22, 2018
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  16. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    Day 92 all other challenges complete towards 120 180 275 per our abstinence contract maybe just 365? My boner pointed to the coffee maker this morning it did its morning job and that's it. Been reading up on semen retention interesting read
     
  17. TC10

    TC10 Fapstronaut

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    What happened? You can talk to me in DM if you want to.

    Is it like a mood for a few days? Or is it a permanent state of mind? We all feel like shit sometimes. That’s totally okay. Just relax for a few days, listen to good music, take care. And see how you feel in a few days. But I know this is in reality much more painful and complicated, but just take care.
     
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  18. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    Been there before also my friend Matt 92 days so ride the wave, remember your penis is 1% of your body mass the other 99% controls everything else, 99% of everything we do is Mind Over Matter. So think about this for a second okay your brain controls your body your mind controls your brain so doesn't your mind overcome what's your brains trying to do for your body otherwise draw happy puppet face on your penis and the next time you're your fapping it imagine it laughing at you it when it's done and then slap some Icy Hot on it and whack it with a ping pong paddle is not the sites name nofap??
     
  19. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    Been there before also my friend Matt 92 days so ride the wave, remember your penis is 1% of your body mass the other 99% controls everything else, 99% of everything we do is Mind Over Matter. So think about this for a second okay your brain controls your body your mind controls your brain so doesn't your mind overcome what's your brains trying to do for your body? Otherwise just draw a little puppet face on it and the next time you're whacking it it can look at you and laugh at you while you why you stopping way it
     
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