A Progressive Challenge-A different kind of challenge- all levels

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by DerNeuMann, Nov 13, 2017.

  1. Narwhale

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    Well, relapsed yesterday. But not going to give up. I have gotten better at handling urges based in physical needs, just by asking myself what is actually going on? Why do I want to use PMO. Still working on the times when I am struggling with fear or stress that are not easily alleviated. Today, I had an unrelenting headache, which made it difficult, but I managed to stick with it, which makes today:

    1/7
     
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  2. silvermonk

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    Hi, Narwhale. It seems we slipped at about the same time, you and me. So let's start again! My last streak was almost 50 days. I´m going to overcome that.
     
  3. Sc8r51o1n

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    Next part of the progression: 60 days of dancing lessons 4 times a week.
    Yesterday was day 1, so target is November 10th.
    The point actually is to make friends in the club with the people there and to go to dates with the attractive girls.
    Target: 4 dates by November 10th.
     
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  4. Sc8r51o1n

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    A friendly reminder to myself: 4 dates by November 10th.
    We are halfway there and already missed one great girl that stopped comming to the dancing lessons.
     
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  5. DerNeuMann

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  6. Sc8r51o1n

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    Personal update:

    Allowed myself to MO. No porn.
    The girl reappeared, I asked her out twice, she is denying.
    Another one is under the radar now. She even complimented my salsa dancing signals last night at the party of the dancing club.
    I am having lots of fun at the latino parties and dance with ten different girls and women per night, which is a lot for me.
    Looking for signals of interest.
     
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  7. ShadyPerson

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    Seems like a cool challenge and might be just what I need. I'm in.

    My ultimate goal is 90 days but for now I'll focus on getting to the day 4, since I've had trouble getting past day 3 lately.

    This is the day 0 for me.

    EDIT: Oh, and an addittional challenge for myself is not to entertain any thoughts that I know will encourage me to relapse. Not thinking any fantasies I'd normally fap for and not trying to reason why I could relapse.
     
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  8. Chipsahoy!

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    Soy un usuario nuevo y estoy dentro, no sé cómo funciona la página, pero solo quiero comenzar una nueva vida sin PMO. Sé que lo lograré pero no será fácil. He intentado tanto tiempo convercerme a mi misma que ya no lo haga pero no puedo sin alguna ayuda.
     
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  9. DerNeuMann

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    Creo que es posible sin ayuda, pero cuando ayuda es cerca, por qué no usar? Bienvenidos. Una nueva vida sin PMO es admirable y más alegría, yo sé porque mi experiencia. El español de mío no es magnifico pero hablar un poco. Cuantos días quieres por tu primer objetivo?
     
  10. ShadyPerson

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    Oh well, started really good with a relapse. Day 0, the same challenge. This time I'll make it.
     
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  11. ShadyPerson

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    Day 1
    No major urges. Not too many fantasies or sexual thoughts. My eyes tend to linger on sexy things, but I haven't been looking for porn substitutes. No serious thoughts about fapping. Emotional range has changed radically between extreme feelings of depressed anxiety and extreme euphoria. (Atm feeling kinda shitty.) But I think I'm dooing pretty good.
     
  12. ShadyPerson

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    Day 2
    Halfway there! Things are going pretty much the same. I've had to redirect my mind away a couple of times when it has tried to think about a fantasy. I'm pretty sure that is the key to my success. I mean sometimes fantasies do come to mind, but if I don't feed them, they'll go away soon enough and if I do feed them, I'll end up in the situation where the urges are very hard to overcome.
     
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  13. ShadyPerson

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    Aaand a relapse. Weird. I don't even know why I'm doing this to myself. I rarely even feel good when I masturbate anymore. Seems like I'm just totally not committed to this shit.
     
  14. Sc8r51o1n

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    I did a reset.
    I dont regret it. But hours later i feel the urge to watch again. No can do!

    From the start again: new challenge - 10 days clean.
     
  15. ShadyPerson

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    No nut november has brought my motivation back. Although I'm currently doing my reboot in no nut november thread. Soooo, I'll be back here in december with a 30 day streak going!
     
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  16. PasterofMuppets

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    I keep failing at around one week-10 days... let's do two whole weeks. I wanna get out of this prison. It's really starting to get too small for me. I'll suffocate if I don't escape in time.
     
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