One of the goals in my life is to get married, but I often worry that my partner would be disinterested in sex and that It would rarely happen. I believe in abstaining from sex until marriage, but don't believe in anything like semen retention that would prevent me from having sex when I want. So to all the married people of this forum, should I be worried about this? Are there red flags to watch out for? How often does it happen for you (if you're comfortable enough to answer)?