A question to all Humiliation joi porn addicts

I actually have exactly this fetish. I can still name some porn actresses who do exactly and only this type of video's. It's really sad..
In real life we want to be the man, but with porn (and, in my case, in bed) we have some weird humiliation fetish...

It's totally not natural though, and we can overcome this

 

I think if we feel like a loser we don’t want to feel like a loser and it is that conflict that is painful. Accepting being a loser takes the burden off not being a loser so it is freeing. The only downside is you end up being more of a loser.

 

I like the pattern of how your thoughts form on this. Although I do not agree on your conclusion.

You could start getting into Stoïc philosophy. Check youtube for Stoïc practices of Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus etc. Or read them.
I think you'll like it

 

thanks,

if you watch porn which tells you that you are a loser, at first it may be a bit of fun. After a while - it may be days, months or even years. The affirmations are internalised and become part of your belief system. Our belief system is totally fabricated by what we allow to be repeated in our head enough times. This is how affirmations work, this is how advertising works, this is how brainwashing works. Repetition can either be used for or against us.