I just realized that I found this site almost 4 years ago. Since then I have left the site and came back several times. But I would not say that I am much better than I was 4 years ago. So many people I have talked to over the years have figured it out, but here I am. Has anyone ever felt like they couldnt put the puzzle together and then one day they did? What is some advice for someone who has failed for 4 years now?