A strange take on PIED, and an even stranger Soultion

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by PositivePerson, Jul 24, 2020.

  1. PositivePerson

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    I think pied falls under not having the correct thoughts consistently, and the anxiety associated with your dong not working in the past furthermore amplifies this problem.

    The checking and thus the doubting of your dong to be reliable and subconsciously using your past faps as an indicator of what you think is going to happen next(your dong going flat), all bring your mind away from what you should be thinking.

    The solution might come as a shock and I'm in no way recommending it, I'm simply saying give it thought, I'm not responsible for your actions. (but I think you'll be surprised and interested if you understand what I'm saying)

    I find that this solution keeps the mind and thoughts busy thus leaving no room for anxiety and checking if everything is as it should be, also I find it can supply you with the consistent thoughts you should be having, thus if this were true and my premise was true this would mean you could stay hard consistently

    here its comes, the big reveal, the strange shocking solution, the solution is reading erotica and fapping, WAIT! WHAT!? yes the reading of the words from erotica text supply your head a constant stream of the correct sexual thoughts you should be having and keep you distracted efficiently because your motivation is to not stop reading othiswise its like turning off your computer while watching porn.

    you might say well even if all this is true, it's only when your fapping to erotica! you'll still have ED with partner or normal masturbation.
    but heres the funny thing, if you keep reading these texts and having consistent correct sexual thoughts, you update your thought pattern to think in a correct manner, so you no longer have that problem but what about the worrying and checking in...

    I would say the checking in would be at a minimum because your confidence on a subconscious level would be so high and your thoughts would be so consistent you wouldn't be in the right frame of mind to worry

    i think this would be a very good treatment for getting rid of thinking fettish thoughts because your thoughts are being guided by the text and this will create uncorrupted thought patterns
     
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  2. Weetabix

    Weetabix Fapstronaut

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    Most erotica is still unrealistic, the only way to overcome your ED whether porn induced or anxiety induced is to have control over the mind, to be able to switch off and just be right here, right now. You're just passing the problem off to erotica, which in most peoples case probably still acts like porn as you over fantasise, you need to be in the real world to overcome addiction and the anxiety of ED.

    You do what you want to do and think is right for you, I won't stop you from that, but telling others who may be lost and looking for guidance that its fine to look at erotica, even good, is a dangerous thing. You could lead someone down the rabbit hole here, not that I think your intentions were malicious in any way, but just think before you post something like this.
     
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  3. PositivePerson

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    I never once said it's fine to look at erotica but I actually said I'm not responsible for your actions and I'm in no way recommending this.
    I put a theory out there that I think makes a lot of sense and I am inviting you all to have a discussion on that theory.
     
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  4. PositivePerson

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    Yes, most erotica is unrealistic.
    I don't think that's the only way mate since that's not how I overcame it, Usually there's never only one way of doing things, and Usually what works for one may not work for everyone.
    BUT ask yourself why do you need to be right there switched off?
    It wouldn't be passing it off to erotica it would be adding another problem, "erotica", and yes I know that's not better but, yea sure it would add another problem But.. and I not saying it will but, if it does cure your ed its for sure going to be worth it.
    It may cause you to fantasize about unrealistic scenarios and you think the real ones will be dull because the standard is high, or maybe you think your mind will be elsewhere when having sex or both. that's a very good point if that were the case and I'm not saying it's not we just don't know since nobody has tried this theory but its a very valid point to consider
    I would think the anxiety would go away with consistent successful experiences and I think the text keeps your focus on the right track that both occupies the mind and keeps a steady flow of only text related thoughts and thus leaves no room for anxiety.
     
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  5. Weetabix

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    I respect it's a theory, but I myself think it's a risky thing to go by, it's like you say yourself "yes I know that's not better". I know some people do the temptation way of getting past things, going on porn sites to purposely pull themselves away strengthening their resolve, so I know there are risky ways of helping yourself, just think actively looking is a bit far.

    When it comes to being right there switched off, i don't mean just switched off from the world, just your thought process, as you would in meditation. Actively coming to your breath and learning to understand your thought processes and the emotions that arise in your body throughout the day and being able to just come back to the present moment. Most sad, anxious or angry thoguhts come from the past or the future, so dwelling there isn't going to help, I believe that only in being here and now and aware of how ytour body and mind is reacting to urges can you overcome this or any addiction. Only by bringing conciousness to urges and anxious thoughts like when you're suffering with ED, which I myself have, can you eradicate said thoughts, not for good, but definitely in the moment.
     
  6. DrabToLight

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    So, you want people to read (look at) erotica instead of pics and vids.

    So, you want people to only do so at their own risk and you understand that erotica is as dangerous as vids and images

    If erotica would cause successful experiences to cure ED, then whey wouldn't vids and images?

    You have agreed that erotica is porn in the same way as vids and images are porn. Notwithstanding that fact, you suggest fapping to porn in the form of erotica while avoiding porn in the form of vids and images.

    I agree some discussion is in order. So here are a few topics to start us off with.

    And this worked for you? You did this? Reading erotica porn while masturbating cured your ED?

    Do you have to continue to use erotica porn to keep your ED cured?

    If you need to continue to read erotica porn to keep your ED cured, are you now an erotica porn addict?

    If you are now an erotica porn addict, how is that better than being a vid and image porn addict?

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