A Very Uncomfortable topic

10cm is slightly below average, but should be completely viable for pleasuring most ladies. You shouldn't worry about size queens any more than you worry about girls who only date people from certain ethnicity or girls who only can get turned on by having feces poured all over them. You not being able to fulfill everyone's fetishes doesn't make you any less of a man.

In addition to the fact that you'll be able to please most ladies with your dick (assuming that you'll be otherwise attentive to their desires and listen to what they like) there are going to be ladies who'll prefer your size, because bigger ones hurt then too much. I personally know one woman who has complained about her being so thight that penetration with her bf hurts her if they aren't extra careful and that sex has become a necessary evil for her because of that.

 

Hi there,,,you saying your penis is 4 inches long when erect not in relaxed state?

 

Don't worry about those who all they talk abt is making women happy.

 

Hey man as someone said above your penis is still big enough to pleasure most women. I used to date a woman who massaged vaginas for a living (for health, emotional benefits - not sexual stuff) and she told me that women have different types of vaginas, there's only really one type where the length of your penis matters.
In regards to what you can do - stay away from porn and don't orgasm too often, that'll help with sexual confidence and erection strength.
I potentially recommend eventually doing a regular self-pleasure practice (slow masturbation without porn and often without orgasm). These types of sessions can help you build positive feelings towards your body and help you feel sexy just as you are/

I know some of these things might not be what you wanted to hear, but none of us can change some parts of our bodies that much.

 

This is why women think guys are r*****ed

To contribute to this conversation, I would say to learn how to get good at performing oral, and learn how to use your hands or a toy.

 

Guys in the thread mean well, they're nice to you. But white lies do you no favors. Chances are your future woman will be disappointed by your manhood. You can and should make up for it by improving aspects of you that can be improved.

 

I would go to an urologist or your family doctor your penis checked out just to be on safe side.

 

When did you noticed that ,?

 

Bruhh 10cm isn't even that far from the average. Most women just simply won't get all that picky because of it.

 

The exact figure probably fluctuates based on the gene pool one is swimming in but the general rule I hear is: if it's not at least 18cm long and quite thick you better bring something to the table besides your schlong.

 

Who doesn't have to though? Do you think any woman out there wants to date a guy who brings nothing but his dick size to the table? Why not get a dildo instead at that point?

Also guys with over 18cm dick are less than 5% of the population.
https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis
So idk seems like a pretty unrealistic standard.

 

I left the conclusion unspoken but here it is: a reasonable assumption would be that the further you are from the ideal the more you must compensate. 10 is significantly less than 18.

I assume that's a global percentage? I think that the number would be quite a bit higher for the Caucasian population which I assume (perhaps incorrectly) we in this thread are all part of.

Also all this talk about 'average' as if it were a consolation is quite strange. Do you want to have an average partner? Do you want to have average friends? Do you want to be average?

I hope I'm not making anyone feel too bad by writing this. If I do, please think of all the things you CAN improve. And then improve them!

 

"Likewise, the study found no significant correlation between genital dimensions and race or ethnicity, although Veale points out that their study was not designed to probe such associations, because much of the data used were from studies of Caucasian men."

Most people will have to settle for average if they don't want to be alone. Most people also don't necessarily have a problem with settling for average. Also I'm not saying that you don't have to have any characteristics that'll stick out. Just that being average or slightly below average in one aspect doesn't mean you'll have to go to lengths in order to compensate for it.

 

Yes..
having Christ as my Savior! What a day of grace !

 

Mine is 18 cm , good size but not Congo size ahahahaah , but that means nothing, im still vergin lol , girls only see your dick at a phase where you already convunce them with your social skills, so social skills is the goal , not penis size
And having a big penis does have some problems , mine when isnr erect is 11 cm , not long ago when i was at gym i was with sport shorts , and i was putting a tissue on a corona basket , when i was putting that thinf to close the basket wish i dont know the name in english, it caught my dick , it hurted really!!

 

This would depend on the woman and the nature of the sexual encounter.

If say OP is seeing a girl where the intention is hooking up, then yes, there likely could be disappointment.

If OP is dating a woman with the intention of having a relationship then as long as their is genuine interest between them, the size of penis should in most cases not be an issue, or a temporary adjustment to the woman's expectations.

Good sexual encounters are about so much more than penis size. I won't deny that having a huge cock does give an advantage generally, but a guy with a big cock can be a terrible lover, and a guy with a small cock can be a magnificent lover. So I agree with you that OP should focus on those things that can be improved.
And I would add to make peace with the size of his cock - which is no easy thing to do. It'll take time.

 

@Ghost in the Shell Your straightforward comments is the truth, truth hurts, people, get over it.

Have to say, I'm very insecure about it myself, and I'm an average 15cm guy...
Cannot get my mind off starting to do some serious PE treatment, I know a couple of guys that have done it over the years, kept track of them, laughed at first, like, naaaah nonsense... now I'm like "wow .. I've been wasting time here, damn" won't do magic, but can get some extra 2-3cm and grith over years to the average joe.

And yeah surely enough you can find a partner that is ok with average, and have a genuine relation that oversees that fact, but let's be real for a minute, excitement goes both ways... and the terrible vs good lover and the size thing....c'mon, it can be both, one way, or another...

I mean, to be straight, some of us are handsome but dull, some ugly fuckers that require extra charisma, some have big schlongs but no skill, some have small schlongs but become magicians using it, some have the best of both worlds ...

Just get to know your weaknesses and balance it.