A virgin's cry for help

From my experience, if you halt porn and orgasms, girls will become a lot more interesting. I've never had sex but I've gone to third base and I definitely would have appreciated the extra libido for that.

I would also look into some testosterone boosting foods and just eating healthier if you arent already.

 

Hey man, 100% PMO is the issue. You need to rewire yourself to real people (I know this sounds stressful) reboot yourself for 90 days and then go out and really start meeting girls. If you get one in the bedroom you will probably see some action down their.

 

Dud if you stop PMO you will see life with different eyes. Women will seem much more interesting and aproachable, but thats just a little part of It. Im on day 27 now and i can tell you by experience that the worst thing you can do is obsess with women. Forget about it and work on yourself, the rest will come, just stay possitive and hold on!

 

I think there are things like vibes or something. When I was a kid and didn't know about fapping girls would come to me and approach me. Hence why I never learned to approach them as I didn't need it. When I started PMO, my energy levels plummeted, leading to off vibes or something for years, so now normally girls act like I'm invisible.

Well, today after a 4-day streak (with terrible withdrawals mind you), I noticed girls were looking at me and cheking me out. I know it sounds like woo, bit it's real. Science still cannot truly explain it, but we do have something like vibes. I don't think it's just pheromones (sp?) as how can one explain being fully dressed with a winter coat in the cold and girls looking at you from a far? I think pheromones work only when you get close and they are related to smell or something? So there's something more to it. It's like you lose your charisma or physicall presence when you wank excessively, like you become invisible or washed out, I cannot explain it better than those words. Girls literally don't know I exist when I fap.

I think the reaoson is our parts are made for making sex with another human being, not for playing with them solo. Whatever those scientists say, ther is no benefit to fapping except some pleasure. But you get pleasure from sex as well, so if you don't do it the right/natural way, better don't go there. We were meant from nature to orgasm inside a partner, not on your belly. I think maybe playing solo messes with your life source/energy or whatever you call it unlike real sex?

 

Thank you and congratz on your 5th day aswell! Stay awesome

 

You were also meant from nature to raise a child afterwards.
Keep that in mind.
And then understand why it's so important for women that they can trust you.

Unlike a man, they cannot run away once they become pregnant.

For a woman, a "man" is someone whom she can trust. Who has clear goals and who is commiting to these goals.
Who is strong and will protect her.

 

Hey Newdawn106, you are on the right track. Removing Pornography will significantly improve your life and ability to develop healthy relationships. I encourage you to check out my ~month to month plan for NoFap success~ post and start there.

I wish you a successful recovery,
Mateo