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About attention from women...

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Thechosenone, Jul 30, 2016.

  1. Son_of_Iroquois

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    Like it or not, you have to be the leader as the man. You have to be able to relate to women emotionally if you want to get laid or have any meaningful relationships. If you have not ability to relate emotionally to women, you're really handicapping yourself.
     
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  2. overclocked

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    Donald Trump had many hot babes. Does he have a lot of empathy for them?
     
  3. There are certain kinds of women that sociopaths/psychopaths attract. Do you want to attract women that are tools? People that will do what you say and mirror everything that you like? A tool is used, then put back into the tool box and mirror is stagnant, it simply reflects. Doesn't sound like much fun to me. It's not a relationship, it's a dictatorship. If that's your goal, continue to treat other human beings like shit and develop your psychopathic tendencies.

    As always in life, it's your choice. You can choose to attract lower quality women that continually choose to put up with assholes that just want them for their bodies. Or you can choose to attract high quality women that can hold a conversation, challenge you intellectually and help you reach your potential.
     
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  4. Son_of_Iroquois

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    Perhaps, but who really cares about whores and gold-diggers. Low value women sell their pussy for money. High value women are real people with feelings. I know that is inconvenient to some people but it's just how it is.
     
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  5. IGY

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    What sort of gobbledygook is that. o_O What is the blue pill? What is the red pill? What are you going on about Dante? :confused:
     
  6. iceman40

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    some of the stuff that you said is true. There is a new age of women who were just concerned about themselves. I think we have social media, TV and other movies, and one girl talking to another girl. They get exposed to things that are not correct at a very young age. They get exposed to men doing all the work and women should get pampered left and right.

    Some of these women will become golddiggers or the new term is sugar babies. These are the ones who are super concerned about their looks, are not very interesting at all, but since they're so damn sexy guys bend over backwards to please them by showering them with gifts and money. So part of the reason is us who spoils these women. Thus these women will never have a normal meaningful relationships because they only see men as a meal ticket.

    There's a few women who are psychologically screwed up. Maybe some bad shift has happened to them in their lives and they can never be normal. I was dating a girl who was kind of fucked up in the head. She was rate constantly at age 4 by her step father and step brother. When I met her at age 22 she had already been with 300 guys. Dating somebody like this is a recipe for disaster so after two months I broke it off.

    There is of course good women out there but they're hard to find and hard to get because they're not get a be an easy lay nor do they hang out in places like bars, nightclubs, rave parties, and so on. I have found real good women in my life and I let them go because I was so involved with porn and asked what I wanted.

    I don't think we should make a blanket statement about women as being a certain type. It's same example if someone says all guys are like dogs and they just want the font can leave. We know this is not the case because some of us are like this, some of us truly want to be loved and wanted my one-woman, and some have other views in life.

    If we have a negative view about women there is a higher probability that we will be attracting this type of women into our lives.
     
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  7. overclocked

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    I kinda agree with Dante Alighieri but there is a big, fat problem that you address: we are running out of valuable women.
    The question in the first place was: so how do I get more attention from them?
    I believe you if you say confidence and a good attitude will make you attractive to a good woman. But where to find good women? Do you think I should try to move to a less developed country? I might find a good job there if I start specializing now.
     
  8. IGY

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