About incels

The plight of an incel is real.

 

Good thing I'm over 6ft and attractive
(I've got mates that are short and ugly - but seem to get talking with the girls, resulting in action..)

 

So are you saying that you fuck?

 

YES.. guess i am too (but i never figured height was an advantage.. its talking to the girls imo, that's what makes the difference)

 

Nopes, not to a sensible person.

 

I was just watching something on tv about some dude who stole a whole lot of money from his company or neighbors. Something like that. He was short and plain looking. His wife was tall and gorgeous. So was his mistress. His friends mentioned that he always had gorgeous girlfriends bc he was a great talker and very charming. Made women laugh and such. They said women always liked him. He was fun to be around, etc. Do you get the picture?

 

She was most likely way out of his league and he was probably stalking her, wouldn’t take no for an answer.

 

Somebody like this did this...

Spoiler: At your own risk

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Junko_Furuta

Spoiler: Same as above

https://steemit.com/japan/@xtian2121/44-days-of-hell-the-murder-story-of-junko-furuta

 

I have a lot to say about incels but I don't know if I should say it all. Plus I'm short on time.

There's different kinds of incels. I'd place them into 3 categories.

1. Incels who have become hateful of themselves and of others because of their lack of success
2. Incels who have become depressed and disillusioned, but not necessarily hateful
3. Incels who, despite their shortcomings, still try to live the best lives they can

Obviously, number 3 is the best case scenario. People in category 1 and 2 may find it hard to reach category 3 because sex and romantic relationships are a huge part of life that they feel excluded from. It's important to understand that the hatred is irrational and wouldn't exist otherwise.

There are many reasons people are categorized as "incels." Physical attractiveness, mental health, and lack of confidence are some of the main reasons. @Get_It posted a very interesting thread https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/no-way-they-are-a-real-couple.251488/ which kind of serves as a counterexample to the theory that "men who aren't chads are doomed to never have a relationship."

I always say that adversity is the parent of triumph. If you have to try very hard to get a girl, then it shows that you have character and determination, and women love men with these traits. If you improve your own life as much as you can, work hard, and find things in life that you can be happy about, then that is a victory in my book. Maybe you are doomed, and maybe women will never be interested in you, but why be a slave?

I think that incels struggle with other things in their life besides women, and that if they are able to fix these things, then the relationship problem might be resolved as a result. Porn and internet addiction is one of these things in many cases. You aren't going to change women, you can only change yourself. Do that as much as possible, and just maybe you will see some hope after all.

 

Thanks for sharing. That's gotta be one of the most horrific things I've ever read but somehow I'm used to it by now.

 

bro I don't know how old you are but you sound like a great big brother to me! Your post explains it well. I have been to the incel forums, most people over there belong to the category 1 and 2 you mentioned.

 

I'm the youngest of two. My older brother is an incel and I'm trying to help him. I'm a virgin by choice.

 

and I truly believe that is not an authentic relationship as that woman is just virtue signaling. If I have the facts right I believe that cripple dude has this disease that will cut his life short.

 

Holy shit... if you go onto the incels.co website, they have a link at the top which lists hundreds of porn sites. Let that sink in for a minute.

Edit: they also don't allow females to make accounts. I wish there was some way I could help all of these people because it makes me so sad that they all feel this way. If everyone on the incel forums came to NoFap, there would be a lot more happy people.

 

That literally made me sick to my stomach. But you did leave an alert.

I passed on reading it the first time. I don't know why I went to read it the next time I came to this thread.

Anyhow, IMO, anyone is capable of ending up that violent if they cling on to negative attitudes, which is another reason we all need to get our act together. Thanks for sharing.

 

Agreed.

 

I do not tolerate people who think the world owes then things. I also do not tolerate victimistic and whiny people.

Incels are those two things combined with other bad things so I naturally despise them.

 

I don't know if it's productive to despise them. We can pity them maybe. But I want to see them grow out of their delusion and become happy people again, so I take a more different approach. Because despising them feeds into their mentality that the world hates them and that they don't belong. They would call that "hatefuel" I think. However, it's very hard to convince people who are in such a dark place that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I'm still trying to figure out the best way to do that.

 

Despite they constant seft-pity, most incels have an superiority complex. They separate the male population in three categories: Incels, "Normies" and "Chad". If you give advice as an Incel, your opinion doesn't matter as you are another "waste of human life" or something like that. If you give advice as a "Normie", you are an ignorant idiot who is too stupid to realized how terrible everything is. If you give advice as a "Chad", you live in a perfect world and therefore you will never even image how is to feel rejected or bad looking, etc. No matter who you are, they think they know better than you and think their views of the world are absolute, any action or words for their sake will be rejected. They cannot be helped.

There is people who is not worth helping.

The only person who can help an incel is himself, and in order to do that, he must first admit that he is wrong, if that ever happens.