Though I appreciate the existence of this site, I never really liked the name "NoFap" and I also dislike the term "fapstronaut". These terms are too much focussing on the "dark side", while I prefer to focus on the bright side of life. Said that, "nofap" is for me just an easy-to-memorize term, but I see it as label without meaning. I also replaced "hard mode" by "freedom mode" for me, because having no orgasm is not so hard at all. It's only hard in your head, when you are addicted, but actually it is simple, painless and makes you free. So in total, I'm interested in your opinion and I'd appreciate if some more positive terms would come to this site. Sex addiction is a side in our personality, which holds us back, but we also have the other side in us, which makes us go free and having a meaningful life. For my experience, the healing comes when you focus on this positive, productive side of your life, when you stay on the sunny side. When you learn to be balanced, to be at peace with yourself. This is a process, during which your positive side is growing, while the dark side is becoming smaller. Just like with the plants in your garden - you can decide which ones you want to grow and have fruits, and which ones you want to stay away. But I recommend to stay at peace all the time, you should even have a positive thinking for the "weed", as it will be recycled and then it can feed the big trees. So always go out in your little garden, car for it, foster and groom, and make it pretty. In fact, we all have the solution in ourselves. A site like NoFap is like a crutch which helps us to go, but ideally, we can throw away the crutch once in the future.