A lot's already been said here already so I'll just point you to some good resources: - RSD Free Tour - RSDTyler - Valentino Kohen There are other great channels for teaching game out there but I personally like the RSD guys (Tyler and Julien especially) and Valentino because really they focus on the core essentials rather than little tricks/techniques and mind games and stuff. It makes it applicable even if you're not looking to do pickup but just want to be better around the girls you already know etc. Plus they hammer in the important stuff like: approach, approach, approach. etc. Check them out, you won't be disappointed. I suggest starting with Tyler's channel, his shorter older videos, then once you've watched most of those, check out Valentino and the Free Tour longer talks. Also, you mentioned being balding in an earlier post. So definitely check Tyler's channel first. As he constantly reminds us in his videos: If he can get plenty of women when he's short, balding, and ginger, so can you, however you look/are. Looks matter, but only at first. Also about 85% of looks isn't the looks you're born with - it's the other aspects of looks: hairstyle, how well kept your facial hair is, how well you dress, how nice you smell, how clean your teeth are, etc. Someone born with 10/10 looks can drop to a 3/10 or less if they take poor care of the other stuff, while someone who's only a 4/10 genetically can be more like an 8+ if they take care of everything else really well and have a suitable style for their face/body shape etc. As I said, looks matter.. but, only at first. They're the first impression. Think of it like a DVD. Looks == the cover art. Game/personality == the actual contents of the film, the reviews of the film you read before you buy it, the text on the box, etc.. While good cover art (looks) might make you pick up a DVD and check it out even though you hadn't heard of it before, a DVD can have terrible cover art and it's not going to stop you buying it if you've read great reviews about it.