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About to relapse after 25 days

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Mortley, Jun 27, 2019.

  1. Mortley

    Mortley New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys
    This is my second attempt after failing the first time which lasted for 13 days. The real reason I started the Nofap journey was to be more attractive to girls. Safe to say its not working after 25 days. I don't see any changes. No girl is approaching me. I even started working out and lifting heavy weights to get to this goal but nothing is happening. This is discouraging me. Also, I noticed I am failing to make eye contact with girls now. Before I started Nofap, I had no problems in making eye contact. I am walking faster than usual. This makes me feel down and I have a strong urge to relapse but my streak will be broken. To be honest, when I read Nofap makes you much more attractive to females I really thought it will change my life. So far I haven't seen any significant change. My life is NOT BETTER. I may have expected a lot out of it . Before I started this journey, I masterbated twice a week or once a week.
     
  2. Take a deep breath and don't give up.
    Stick with your plan and give it more time.
     
  3. Mortley

    Mortley New Fapstronaut

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    I will not relapse. For some reason, I feel pretty awful. The way people talked about Nofap, I really thought it will change my life. Till now ZERO benefits.
     
  4. Nofap doesn't change your appearance. The guys that claim all of a sudden women are attracted to them, likely feel a bit more confident as they are working towards a goal and feeling accomplished. Possibly the girls notice the guy being more confident, or they are self absorbed and just imagine this is happening. You aren't doing this for women, you're doing this to create a healthier brain for yourself and beat addiction.
     
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