About wetdreams

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Ramuk, Aug 17, 2019.

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  1. Ramuk

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    A lot of days had passed. I feel comfortable with each passing day. I feel like living. I sometimes feel that the time is moving slower. But I sometimes have wet dreams (Nocturnal Emissions). Is it normal? If it is not, What steps I have to take to stop this problem?
     
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  2. Steven_TheOneAndOnly

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    Wet dreams are normal.I explain to you. For many years, masturbating every day, you've made your brain believe you need to ejaculate. When you stop all of this, your system always thinks it's a need and makes you cum when you're unconscious. Do not worry, the wet dreams will soon stop.
     
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  3. Grey is colourless

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    They are hard to get rid of, but not natural. I havent in 3 years.
     
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  5. Steven_TheOneAndOnly

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    Are you saying that you have completed 3 years of Hardmode?
     
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  6. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    Ramuk you are 24. You know very well you can not stop wet dreams. I am hoping you took health class at High School. Your body produces constantly sperm. The old sperm has to be released some how. That is why we get horny. We are design to inseminate to procrate. Either way, in order to have a successful pregnantion our sperm has to be fresh and new. Old sperm in you start to deteriorate after 76 hour matured. This builds up in You with time. Your body knows how to take care of yourself so while you sleep it will release with a dream or not. This is very basic health class. Not sure why some guys here have different ideas when this is how the male body works. It hasn't change since humans existed. Embrace your wet dreams, yes they are annoying but your a man. You will produce semen for the rest of your life. So man up bro.
     
  7. Steven_TheOneAndOnly

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    You are right. But from a certain moment, you have reached a phase in Nofap, which consists in the reabsorption of your sperm by the body, the sperm no longer accumulates in your testicles, it is absorbed throughout your body, it nourishes body and mind, it's so fabulous. It's been a month since I did not ejaculate and the volume of my balls did not increase.
     
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  8. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    Yes, true I forgot to mention absorption of semen in our blood stream. The body does have the capacity to reabsorb old sperm ( including old seminal fluids ) into the blood stream so technically its recycled like if it was swallowed,lol. However, depending how your genetics are some guys bodies do not reabsorb all the time or none at all. That is why there are guys that never have wet dreams, some have them once a month, some once a quarter and some every 3 days or so. It just depends how your body is programmed to get rid of your own old sperm. All is natural and its nothing wrong. However, If you get wet dreams, the chances of never getting them again is very slim. There are some guys out there that get very upset and beat them selves for getting wet dreams and when they are told that it can be stop...they are giving them a false expectation and it will lead them to more frustration, giving up on No Fapping just to avoid wet dreams. Some guys here really hate having them and can not come in terms with wet dreams for some strange reason when they are soooo normal as producing saliva in your mouth. We can not tell them it will stop or you will see less ( not saying you ) since we do not know how his body really works since its genetic, he will know how his body works with time. It better for him to embrace his wet dreams and let his body take care of his semen, let nature do its work and encourage him to continue No Fapping since that is something he CAN CONTROL. right?
     
  9. Steven_TheOneAndOnly

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    Well I guess that's unfortunate then, Sperm is the life force of every man, he does what he is: his charisma, his beauty, his strength, his personality. If a man has wet dreams every 3 days I complain, he will never be able to experience the best thing that every man should do: Semen retention.
     
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  10. SaveTheSeedofLife

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    Well in his case he never said 3 days. That was me speaking for those that have them couple times per week. And I think I would be annoyed too cause its just annoying to wake up to your underwear and bed covered in semen but it is what it is and to be honest I wouldn't mind. Some guys produce lots of Semen ( sperm ) what we call heavy cummers or hyperspermia that is out of their control so they are going to have massive nocturnal emissions frequently until they start to have sex or M. Guys that are this way would know they ejaculate a lot of semen naturally cause one ejaculation would fill up almost 3 quarters of a glass or they try to cup their ejaculate and it just spills off their hand. The norm or average should be a teaspoon to a tablespoon and it goes down more as you ejaculate more in a day. I ejaculate way more than that. Semen retention is the ability of not masturbating and not ejaculating voluntarily. Its more about the mind and controlling your desires when awake. When you have sex you avoid ejaculating. Semen retention does not apply when its involuntary like in our dreams or when your in a coma anything that you are not aware of state. We do not control our dream states especially in REM sleep. Semen retention is a discipline that comes from the east. If people say they can control theirs dreams they are totally lying or they don't have the concept or terminology right. They are more in a lucid state where they in between awake and sleep. Their are many on here that have these concepts twisted and wrong and are giving them out like candy I suggest to read the proper books on semen retention and get good proper education before dabbing into it. I practice semi retention because I am not single. If I was not single I would go full blown semen retention. However, I can tell the difference and its amazing and love the feeling of retaining my semen more than when I use to ejaculate for the fun of it. I don't know about you on how you feel retaining your semen but my moods have change a lot and the way I see things changed drastically even If I get depressed it does not last long like it use too. So yeah, I can testify that I retain and have wet dreams and I feel great and just do my day to day activities without any hang ups on these things. I was curious about S.R so I decided to try it out and go hard mode so I haven't ejaculated for the past 50+ days. Even though my time says 49 its actually more I just couldn't remember the actual day so I picked one that I was sure. I hope I helped in a way and like the chat. In no way I want to change your point of view but at least shine some light of other perspectives. Research yourself and come to your own conclusions and do what makes you feel that is right as long you don't beat yourself up because then you will get discouraged. Knowledge would be your key to true enlightenment brother.
     
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  11. Ramuk

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    Thank you for briefing everything. I have wet dreams only once in a month. So, I hope it won't be a problem
     
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  12. Grey is colourless

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    talking about 'wetdreams'
     
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  13. Amphibian

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    I think the point Steven was making @Grey is colourless is that if you were in hard mode for 3 continuous years and did not have a wet dream, that that would be a bit remarkable because that is 3 years with no emission. But, if you are masturbating or having sex on occasion in that interval, then your occasional ejaculations will likely prevent wet dreams from having.

    I actually never had wet dreams until I found NoFap and started abstaining from PMO. Before that, I was masturbating daily, and that released it, but once I abstained I began too, albeit not often.

    On this current streak I'm on, I haven't had any as of yet, but I'm pretty good at shutting down fantasies during the day. I can even lucid dream at night and shut them down, or wake myself up to take a cold shower.
     
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  14. Grey is colourless

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    Still, I slept in hot and cold. Watched adult videos on my phone right before putting it down to the side of the bed and going to sleep, horny as a bastard. I went weeks as well. I had many wet dreams before and it was crappy, mainly draining, but now Im 100 immune. Theres a lot more benefits from my transformation. Beyond this little symptom. Believe what you want. Everything is possible. The devil is a square. He limits you.
     
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  15. BeyondErr

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    Could you
    help me stop wet dreams
     
  16. Hold it in

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    For me wet dreams are not the norm. I'm lucky to get a few a year, but they provide the most intense orgasms, uncontrollable pleasure almost for me. Sounds like from what you say you get them all the time. Lucky you
     
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    I having the same problem
     
  18. Mithras

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    In my opinion, wet dreams occurrences can be reduced over time mainly by limiting sexual thoughts especially before going to bed. I'm not saying that they are totally avoidable as they probably fulfill a biological function but we can have an impact on their frequency.
    In my case, I used to get them once or twice a week during my first streaks because my mind was full of filthy thoughts, porn images and used to regular orgasms. However, the frequency tended to diminish in correlation with abstinence from porn and sexual thoughts and I just got them once every month or every two months.
     
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  19. gagate

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    it's possible to make nocturnal emissions stop, monks from dzagochen do it regularly, in some traditions for the rainbow body the semen has to crystallize in your body, that's a requirement, but it's a long and tedious process, if you abstain from sexual thoughts or anything sexual the wet dream rate will go down over time and semen reabsorbs in greater percentage
     
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  20. gagate

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    yes it's absolutely possible, wet dreams are draining and annoying once I had one I would lose alot of energy
     
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