I have read success stories telling that, once we reach a certain moment of abstinence, you stop seeing women as sexual objects and actually care about building relationships with them. Well, I happen to experience the exact opposite. After releasing sexual tension, I can have conversations without second intentions with women, create rapport, emphatize and connect with them on deeper levels. My longest streak of abstinence (as of September 2019) was 21 days, and in those last days I was basically sexually interested in any women that crossed my sight. Every single adult female became hot, with looks paying very little importance. For those who are more experienced with O abstinence, is this often part of the proccess? Why does success stories around tells the other way around?