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Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by corylife, Dec 22, 2019.

  1. Ready2Quit1980

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    I’m on day 4, going strong so far. Anyone else here struggling to repair a relationship that was damaged?
     
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  2. Kobold

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    Day two down! Feeling good
     
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  4. Ready2Quit1980

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    On day 5...was tempted at start of day when I woke up but took advice I saw on here to quickly change thoughts and get moving. Made it through the day
     
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  5. Ready2Quit1980

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    One day at a time
     
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    Restarting for the upteent time. Longest I had gone earlier was 3weeks then relapsed.
    Been on a one week bender for the past week. Being trying to stop for a year now but keep relapsing. I can't do this alone. The anxiety sucks and I feel like shit
     
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  8. HelpMe & IHelpYou

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    I know that feeling man. It's getting worse and worse. When i am triggered, its like i am another person. Later i feel guilty, ashamed and dumb. I think the first step is to push all these bad feelings away and focus on the new target. Otherwise we will stay in this loop. You need to surprise yourself to break out.

    The trick is: the more effort you make to get away from pornography, the easier it will be for you.

    For example: You read in the newspaper that a bird sanctuary has burned down. 50 birds dead. Maybe you think about it for a moment, but it doesn't really get to your heart.

    Imagine you find a bird in the street and you take care of it for months... day after day you take care of it. If that bird died after months, you would be really sad. Why?
    The more you invest, the more your heart will be attached to it

    Conclusion: Turn your life upside down to make it this time!

    The community believes in you! I'm also at day two. Let's get through this shit! We can do it.
     
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  9. Kobold

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    That’s day three. Making good progress
     
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  10. Day four, the cost of releasing is so high.
     
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  11. Ready2Quit1980

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    Starting day 7. Anyone else feel like they have withdrawals? I feel shaky and on edge. This is my first time trying to stop..is that normal?
     
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  12. that dude

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    Just relapsed. It is really hard on self-quarantine.
    Well, next try.
    What gives me hope is my calendar on which I mark an X each day I don't relapse. There are a lot more X's lately than last year. My streaks are getting longer. But sometimes I still binge relapse, destroying most of my accomplishments and throwing me back to not really feeling anything down there.
    I have to stop that binge part. Any tips on that?
    Yeah that's totally normal. It's an addiction and cutting it off usually results in withdrawal symptoms. They will come and go several times, of course depending on how long you've been wanking
     
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  13. Ready2Quit1980

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    Thanks. Withdrawal was tough today. I’d recommend having stuff to occupy your mind when you want to binge.

    10 minute walk outside. Book. Make a meal. If I just moving the urge goes away
     
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  14. corylife

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    Thanks buddy. I will actually save that quote.
     
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  15. corylife

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    done with day 3...
     
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  16. Kobold

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    Day four down. Feeling great tbh. I feel alive, have tons of energy, and in control. Unfortunately this is about the time I start to screw up. But I know that and with your guys help I'm gonna beat it this time. Stay strong brothers
     
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  17. corylife

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    You got this.. stick through it. Go buy something good to eat for getting through this day. reward yourself!
     
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  18. Day six. The days of temptation are on me. I can’t believe I’m only halfway to where I was six days ago when I was on day 12. That’s what a reset will do, it will knock all the joy out of you. NOT ONE GOLDEN DROP.
     
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  19. SpacePunk

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    Day 50

    I've been trying to fight off the urge to find a certain "actress" that just popped up outta nowhere. I haven't acted upon it so everything is fine.
    On the plus side, I have been doing more music stuff on Instagram while in quarantine. I shared some of the songs I can play and I got a good response from the few people who did respond.
    So yeah everything is pretty positive...Aside from the world being in panic mode.
     
  20. getitoverwith

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    hello all, can I join this group?
     
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