1) Yes we are good friends, and I've tried explaining it to him, but I guess I need to go into more depth about it with him if something like that happens again. I have mentioned to him that this is a problem for many guys, and I know he watches porn quite often, but the conversation hasn't gone past that. 2) No, I don't think the pleasures of M is worth the risk... you're right. It's a great question that you ask. I'll have to do more introspection on this as I am starting to realize more and more how P and M are so woven together for me. Its been very tough for me to separate the two because they've always felt synonymous to me. I appreciate the feedback @tedy26! Yes, I agree with you about telling him how I feel about the situation. Putting him in my shoes, and asking why he is showing me this material in the first place. I'm glad you didn't relate to my second spoiler! lol. That's a once in a blue moon situation... fortunately. For the last point, I'm actually pretty good with eye contact. I generally make eye contact with people that I am already interacting with, attracted to, or just find interesting. I guess this one caught me off guard because I haven't been dating, or as social as a few months ago. If I'm being honest, this is a sign that I need to start being more social in my day-to-day life because I've accumulated a bit of rust in this department. Thank you @JohnPaulGeorgeRingo!