Accountability Group for 20s/30s M

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Accountability Bud, Jan 30, 2020.

  1. dylpickle

    dylpickle Fapstronaut

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    Update 3rd day
     
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  2. tedy26

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    Welcome to the group.
    I myself is trying to quit porn for the same reason you do. Trust me when I tell you I know exactly what you mean about porn affecting your relationship with Christ.
    Your plan seems very good but I recommend you take little steps. Otherwise it may get overwhelming. One thing at a time.
    Keep it up!
    The grass is greener on the other side!
     
  3. tedy26

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    Hey guys
    Hope everyone is doing fine.
    Am wondering if anyone of you guys came across the book Cupid's Poison Arrow" by Marnia Robinson or its reviews. If you have any reflection on why n how you practice such type of sex, please let me know. Thought it might be a good input to our strike or even to the rest of once sexual life.
     
  4. dylpickle

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    Hey Tedy, I've came across that book before.... Basically the jist is Karezza and holding orgasm and/or orgasming and not ejaculating....

    It's legit, it works (I haven't been able to orgasm without ejaculation), but the no orgasm goes back centuries and I can attest to the efficacy of having a partner with whom you practice these things with.

    Try it!
     
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  5. nick2020

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    Really happy to see everyone's day counters climbing. :) Don't forget to update your goals for the week on the google sheet and comment on someone else's goals/reflections if you have not done so already!

    Sharing a short motivational video for some hump day energy!
     
  6. tedy26

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    Hey Dylan
    Tnx for the info. Since I posted the issue here on this platform, I have been trying to read about karezza. It is indeed quite interesting. The way I see it, It’s having sex in a NoFap hard mode way. You get to enjoy sexual pleasure while benefiting from semen retention. You get to live in a monk mode even after marriage. And it’s also good for strengthening the intimacy of once relationship. The only challenge I think is to convince a partner to try karezza. ( challenge accepted lol)
     
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  7. 100Miles

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    Hello. Day 3 going strong, praise God
     
  8. 100Miles

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    Your speaking voice reminds me of Jake Gyllenhall's. Anyways, good video, thank-you!
     
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  9. 100Miles

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    I've also pinned this page to my laptop's taskbar
     
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  10. StayTheCourse2020

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    Just wanted to say its great having other men out here coming together to better themselves. You may have some easy days and you may have some rough days where it feels like you cant keep your head above the waves but with every test you face comes the chance to succeed. Decide now how you will face the challenges when they come and be MEN, don't be slaves to your body and the flesh but hold your ground and fight for the truth of who you want to be and know; NOW is your chance to be the man you want to become. Good luck this week Gents. STAY THE COURSE!
     
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  11. Accountability Bud

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    Dylan, your honesty is powerful. I'm really rooting for you here.

    And Miles, that sounds like a plan. I'll expect you to reach your goals and know that you're expecting the same of me.

    Also, I'm sending you each a new google sheet to keep track of our weekly goals. It will still have the same info you've already put into it.
     
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  12. Basilio

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    Welcome @warrior_01, @dylpickle and @100Miles! Good luck to all of you with your goals.

    Great video man! I laughed when Jake interrupted you lol. I never even thought about digestion and not fapping. I do suffer from bloating at times, so this is something I'll watch out for.

    Nice one Nick! I've actually been watching, and listening to a lot of motivational videos myself lately. I also listened to that Ted Talk vid in regards to happiness you sent several posts back. Amazing how the people in our lives and the quality of those relationships make, or break our happiness.

    This sounds very similar to the book "The Multi Orgasmic Man" By Mantak Chia. Anyone heard of it? The whole premise is about semen retention, and the fact that men can have "multiple" orgasms just like woman, without having to ejaculate. I bought the book yeaaaars ago, and never finished it. Might have to pick it up again!

    Also guys, on top of posting in this group, I also have a journal I try to write in daily of my progress. If you're interested, you can check it out here: shorturl.at/dzBGW
     
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  13. tedy26

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    Once I get my hands on the book titled cupid’s poison arrow, will definitely check out The Multi Orgasmic Man" By Mantak Chia. thanks for the tip dear.n Will try to post my reflection on my readings.
     
  14. tedy26

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    That’s a nice tip.
     
  15. dylpickle

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    Good. Stuff. Y'all.
     
  16. dylpickle

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    Update 5th Day


    Tedy, I tried to access the journal but the links broken...
     
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    Would anyone be willing to be my one-to-one partner? I follow the thread and keep the goal spreadsheet up to date, but I find it hard to respond and keep up with everybody on an individual basis. Does that make sense?
     
    Last edited: Feb 13, 2020
  19. ImprovingTom

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    Welcome to the group Miles! Let's go far together. And let me know how your sleep schedule goal is going - I'm considering doing something similar.
     
  20. dylpickle

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    Ok so yesterday I tried intranasal oxytocin spray and it was a bad time. Super anxiety and crippling neediness type feelings.... So suffice to say I'll never do that again. Kinda felt like a type of relapse. Weird for sure.
     

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