ACCOUNTABILITY GROUP FOR PEOPLE ABOVE 30 Y.O

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by control your life, Nov 11, 2019.

  1. Happy Christmas ! Its our little brain who give us many reasons why we should pleasure ourselfs , but we should stop listen to it and do what is good for our body and soul - pmo free life , where we are not slaves to a habbit , but free from this sin !
     
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  2. Damomad

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    Can you do something drastic like switch the internet off in your house for a few days? Just to start with.

    Or even switch your phone to a basic model?
     
  3. im’possible

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    Happy holidays.
    Today was crazy. I kinda did both good and bad. Bad was I "crashed" (broke) the car inside of the driving school. Though the instructor insisted that wasn't my fault, I was on wheel so I share the responsiblity. With a be careful comment on the record.
    Good thing was I saved a boy after the accident. Yes he was falling almost. Just glad he was concisious.
    Well I guess that's life huh? Never know what's next.
     
  4. Hey everyone. Sorry to report but the holidays and loneliness got the best of me. But I’m back on the horse. Happy holidays to all and stay strong!:)
     
  5. Yah ..holidays is a toughy... im glad you are ready to fight back!
     
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  6. Yeah. I should’ve come here first! But it’s ok. I’m not perfect. Can’t beat myself up but also can’t give myself a break. Back to it. Happy holidays everyone!
     
  7. Unfortunately I cant turn off the house internet, cause it is being shared by everyone else here, but I could try switching off my phone wifi unless I really need to use it and just switch it on periodically to check for messages. Thanks for the tip!

    Yes you are 100% right, the brain always wants the shortcut and feel pleasure now even though we will suffer in the future. I must always remind myself to play the long game, and aim for future happiness instead of just a short pleasure followed by regret. Thanks for the advice!

    Yup the holidays are super dangerous! looking at my past history most of my relapses are around the holidays, so lets keep a look out for those sneaky thoughts. Good that you are back here and ready to try again, not giving up is the most important :)

    Also check-in day 5, nothing major to report, urges are there but nothing too serious, I am just keeping myself busy to take my mind off it.
     
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  8. Damomad

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    Checking in, time to start thinking of some resolutions for the new year, maybe a whole calendar year porn free? I’ve done it before so anything is possible!

    Hope everyone is staying strong!
     
  9. colio

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    Hi All, just checking in. With family - always triggering of all kinds of stress. But, trying (TRYING) to find time to chill out. Happiest of holidays all around. And a Happy New Year!!
     
  10. Damomad

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    Averaging a nocturnal emission once a week at the minute. I vaguely recall P being involved but I can’t be sure so won’t beat myself up about it. I feel there is a healing process that’s inevitable so it may take time for all P thoughts to dissipate.

    The other night I had a dream where I was actively resisting urges in the dream itself so I’m building up strength in the unconscious.

    On another note, it might be because of the holidays and seeing old friends, but it has been hitting home the past few weeks how most people my age are in relationships/have children. I think I’ve been burying my head in the sands of p all this time. Afraid to commit, afraid to grow up. Distracting myself from responsibilities.

    Nofap and the new year brings new opportunities to put this right.
     
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  11. I would like to join this group :). I’m 38 years old and my goal is 90 days of no PMO. Currently 2 days in..
     
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  12. Hey everyone, I haven't been on the forums in almost 2 weeks due to the holidays, etc. Unfortunately, I relapsed yesterday on Day 10 of my streak.
     
  13. 12ove

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    Good to have you back checking in. Seems like you had a legit streak, keep checking in we are here to help you at the moment a trigger comes up.

    I have been doing well avoiding P. My other addictions have been rearing their head, alcohol and gambling.

    Luckily the alcohol has been somewhat managed but my gambling addiction has run wild and I have been on a horrible loosing streak. Hopefully week 3 of nofap will bring me better luck!

    Stay strong yall, we can do this!
     
  14. You're right. Since joining this group, I was always telling others to reach out to me if they are feeling urges so I need to remember to do the same. Just so hard to do it in the moment though, ya know?

    Sorry to hear about your other addictions in alcohol and gambling. Hang tough!
     
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  15. jrw1357

    jrw1357 New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys. 30/M from the U.S. Can I join?
     
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    Anyone here want to start a Telegram or Whatsapp chat for 30+ yr olds?
     
  17. 12ove

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    Sorry I don't use either of those apps, and avoid having things tied to nofap on my phone in general.
     
  18. :emoji_thumbsup:Count me in :).
     
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  19. New Journey

    New Journey Fapstronaut

    It's been ages since I last logged in. Most of the time I don't have much to say. Anyway, I'm back and I have nearly 9 days without PMO. Still early days but it's a great start.
     
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  20. Welcome pal ...we can do this !
     

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