Not that i condone masturbation in any shape or form. I think it is harful, however i also think there are various degrees of damage. This sounds weird even to me and i've been masturbating for 20 years but noticed this accidentally. So there's what i will call the passive masturbation where you just sit there and stroke your dick and there appears to be the active masturbation where you hold your hand still and thrust with your pelvis. The feelings seem to be very different and so does the orgasm. It also feels that you lose control in passive masturbation and it's like you get milked, whereas in active masturbation it feels you are in control and dont gel milked but rather you deliver semen. This would also explain femdom, as regular stroking is more like femdom milking. I think this would be connected to the issues many face with hocd, as the passive masturbation ( the most common one ) is basically you in the role of the woman. Anyone else noticed this?