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Addicted Collateral Damage

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Dan888, May 30, 2015.

  1. Dan888

    Dan888 Fapstronaut

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    First off I've never had a girlfriend but I've visited many massage parlors. I get girls easy but never follow through for a meaningful relationship because I need instant gratification like I get from porn. Support needed. I've hit rock bottom emotionally. I get good grades at a university and study accounting. $$$$$. But I'm afraid I'll spend even more money on instant gratification when I start working. 23 years old. Good looking. Never had a deep relationship.
     
  2. Ben Vaz

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    You haven't written anything about being addicted to Porn, but I guess you are, if you want instant gratification by women. Seems like your only way out of this is, to stop thinking women in the real world will have sex with you instantly. Of course, there are some women who are easy and like ons, but these are not the women, you should seek right now. You want to be cured and the only way to do that is to change.
    If you seriously want help, then you should continue reading and take it to heart. We can only give advice, you are the one who has to take it seriously. Still there, good, then off we go:
    1. You have to change your lifestyle, stop visiting massage parlors. You can save alot of money this way and it the first step to recognize the value of a real relationship with a woman. You have to work for it like for everything else.
    2. Your goal must be to achieve some virtues like patience. There are things, you simply cannot have the moment you ache for them. You will learn this too by...
    3. Stop watching Porn. In fact start NoFap. Believe me, I used to masturbate three times a day, every day. I've been told several times that I'm handsome (both genders), but I never had a serious relationship before either. Right now, I'm dating a wonderful woman, she's so lovely and heartwarming, no Porn could ever give me this feeling I have, when I'm with her.
    4. Install Porn Block Software on your computer (K9, Anti Porn Pro), block sites like 9gag, too many sexual stimuli. Activate SafeSearch on Google and SafeMode on YouTube.
    5. Avoid shows like Game of Thrones at the beginning, if possible. Take away all temptations from you, this way, it will be alot easier for you.
    6. Get busy. Start doing sports, once you stop Porn you will have lots and lots of energy, I do three workouts in a row in one day that should be done during a whole week. It's awesome.
    7. If you're feeling down, listen to some ASMR videos. They totally work, at least for me, you have to find your trigger and then it will feel good. But only sounds. The female voices could stimulate you too much.
    8. The first week of NoFap you might feel some pain in your testicles, don't worry, after this week, the pain will be gone. After day 14 you will feel great, but then, it will go down and down till day 40-50. Now you will recognize the progress, day by day, and when 90 days are over, you won't want to masturbate anymore.
    9. Stay strong, even ,if some people will tell you that it is crazy to do that, that masturbation is healthy blablabla, don't listen to them, stay focused. You will accomplish something many people never will.
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    During my reboot, I went out with friends and recognized more attention by women than usual. Or maybe, I only recognized it, because my mind wasn't focused before. Nevertheless I'm sure, you will see a difference, but don't expect miracles and most important, don't rush it. If you're as handsome as you say, you shouldn't have a problem finding a woman who likes you and wants to spend more time with you. You will not regret it.

    Hope I could help you a little bit, good luck! :)
     
    Last edited: May 30, 2015
  3. Dan888

    Dan888 Fapstronaut

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    obviously i wouldnt be writing on this site if i didnt think my weak impule control wasnt a result of porn addiction. thanks for your advice but it felt pretentious. luckily ive found other members that have more constructive criticism.
     
  4. Dan888

    Dan888 Fapstronaut

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    i probably workout way more then you do anyways.
     
  5. Mike98

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    How could you be such a dick to someone giving advice?
     
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  6. Dan888

    Dan888 Fapstronaut

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    It was crappy advice. I read all the stuff he said four times over on the regular NoFap reddit posts. I mean the first sentence, cmon its obvious I'm addicted to porn if I'm writing on a porn addiction website. What is this AA? Hi I'm an alcoholic. Lol. And who are you calling me a dick?
     
  7. Dan888

    Dan888 Fapstronaut

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    I reported you to the website mike. There's no room for you here
     
  8. Mike98

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    You reported me? You're the one who was being rude to someone giving advice. What the hell...?
     
  9. Dan888

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    I said thanks for the advice to him and never used vulgar language. I already work out like he does probably more. Never called anyone a dick. It was unwarranted you even responding. Good day
     
  10. NoBrainer

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    You sir have the distinct vibe of a troll. You have stated you need support in your opening post, yet you immediately rejected any advice/ support given to you.

    Your report has been rejected. Continue making disrespectful remarks to other users and you will be promptly banned.

    Good day
     
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  11. Dan888

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    No brained is a baby back bitch

    Hahahahaha
     

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