Addicted to chaturbate and Snapchat sexting

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by RandomUsername123, Dec 22, 2019.

  1. RandomUsername123

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    Are there any way to block these or something? I know I can put up parental protection on Google play and then put a child lock on my internet. But it's all in my name, I can just deactivate the parental controls anytime which makes it useless!

    Becoming a real problem now, I think I'm over it and don't go on chaturbate for ages and then after I've had a drink I'll look and I'll get hooked, will be on it all weekend just checking to see who's showing now. And they never finish! Just have blow jobs for hours and never cum so I never finish! Such a waste of time, so then while I'm watching I'll create a Snapchat account and start messaging randoms teasing pictures to see if anyone wants to sext. I have no desire to meet up with any of them, don't even know where they are from, never want to strike up a conversation. 99% of girls aren't into this at all, I know this! Then even when the 1% shows an interest it's always a disappointment. It's too back and forth and gets really repetitive. Yet I still want to do it?

    Then I cum multiple times on the weekend and finally get it out of my system, feel crap about it all and swear to never do it again... But it keeps happening!!!!

    It's all so unrewarding! Really want to stop it for good. This time....
     
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  2. Just stop entering in this hell. The hell that makes womans and mens put M all the year for $$$. I know what you are experiencing and the best thing you can do it is forge that this site exists
     
  3. tbird

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    Don't look back at what you've done as the baseline of your behavior. Start today with the attitude of being a respectable man who won't resort to trashy online time wasters. Worst case, do a quick fap (no porn) to get it out of your system and move on to other more relevant stuff.
     
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  4. RandomUsername123

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    I always think I'm past it then I have s stupid relapse ! I can go weeks without even looking at that site then as soon as I do I'm hooked! Now it's out my system I just feel awful, anxious that someone will find out I've been snapchatting randoms for rubbish sexting which gives me no pleasure! Honestly feel like I'll ruin my life one day being this stupid. Feel depressed I could act this way again and again when I know how bad I feel afterwards.

    If I drink too much one night I need to keep my phone away from me the next day until my stupidity goes away. That's the main problem for me. It's either don't drink so much or get rid of the stupid hormyness the next morning. I'm never like this when I stay sober.

    With 2020 coming up I'm gonna make that s reason to be a new better me. 2020 me doesn't have any of this baseline behaviour it's gonna be a fresh start for real.
     
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  5. tbird

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    Starting today, right?
     
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  6. ANewFocus

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    Have someone you trust out parental controls on your phone with a passcode you don’t know, also have them put a password they know on your router that blocks these sites.
     
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  7. marr708

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    "I'm never like this when I am sober." Your own words point to the solution and/or problem.
    I don't think you need all these porn blockers. You need honest self reflection and a solid commitment to
    change today. There are no tomorrows, just excuses.
     
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  8. RandomUsername123

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    Yeah I don't wanna feel like this again I have to sort it out now
     
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  9. RandomUsername123

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    I was gonna do this I think, but I know there's ways around it like just downloading the APK file!!! I gotta just keep my phone away from me if I'm hungover and feeling like this way. Keep myself entertained and distracted by something else
     
  10. RandomUsername123

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    I've cut down loads the last few years, never get drunk in the house and don't stay out later than the last bus home. maybe I need to think about taking more steps if it's still not enough
     
  11. Atlas Gherbe

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    I was addicted to that fucking site too. I was stroking my dick for hours in search of the perfect daily girl.
     
  12. RandomUsername123

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    It's so ridiculous! I never paid a penny on it, you'd think you found the perfect girl them she'd go into a private room ha. And some guys just get their dicks sucked for hours and hours! They just never cum, must be so used to it from being on cam all day so you kinda get bored of them after a while cos there's no finish. Could literally watch them all day it's not good!
     
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  13. Atlas Gherbe

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    Yep and other just stroke their dick and talk with the girl for feel excited. Ome day a guy send 2000 tokens for "a smile"... Me and you are the lucky ones and never pay a buck, but other pay 1000 and more every month.
    And your brain will bring you there automatically, every hour i entered, just for see the girls. Tons of girls account saved on my chrome favorites at that time.
     
  14. RandomUsername123

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    Well I went on chaturbate nursing a hangover today but I made a bargain with myself that I'd only go on for 10 mins max ! Happy that's all I did, the porn isn't the main problem for me really. My brain kept saying, just make a Snapchat account but just be friendly to people not creepy! But I resisted so I feel good about that today! I need to learn that girls just aren't interested in rude snaps like guys are. It's just a way to go into depression even trying.
     
  15. Tryinghardtoquit2

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    Chatturbate and vhat in general are so toxic for porn addicts. See some of my other posts on porn / chat use and how your brain consumes and processes it.
     
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    I agree, i think its the way the girls give oral for literally hours but look like they are real life couples. So you think every girl should just be giving head constantly. If i binge on it i know my inner voice gets messed up. Ill be at work and say something perverted about a colleague to myself and instantly feel like a creep. Need to just cut it out
     
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    Had a relapse yesterday. Woke up with food intentions, fight off the hangover with a run them be productive. Ended up just going back to bed... Watching chaturbate for hours and messaging randoms on Snapchat. Even when some girl flashes me her tits I don't stop, fan literally do all day. Such a waste!! So unhealthy for me. Gonna really cut down the booze this year now I think, should be easy to do as there's no special occasions coming up. Just give myself a 5 pint limit or something. Alcohol is clearly the trigger for it just need to find a way to deal with it or stop the booze
     
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  18. g2stop

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    Yes cut down the booze
     
  19. Ogikubo

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    This is an addiction I had no idea about and I'm kind of freaked out just reading about it. I'm not judging, though. I can understand how this would occur and I really hope you can get over this. If you do not mind some advice, I am not sure willpower is sufficient for you, at least for now. Do not be ashamed or scared to go see a therapist or psychologist. I think you need to hear yourself, not just write about it here. Therapy has done a lot to help me deal with PMO. Whatever you decide, good luck, man.
     
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    Which part ? I think a lot of people suffer from wanting to sext, that's why there are so many people sending nude pictures about it seems quite common, maybe I'm in a bubble and I'm wrong about this! I feel like the problem is that it can feel like such a victim less crime. You message someone with clear intentions, maybe even have your Snapchat name as nudes, ask them.of they are into it, if they aren't then they shouldn't accept your friend invite or your message, if they are then everyone is happy! I don't think it's as simple as that tho I think girls get annoyed by it all, from what I understand there's a lot of dick pictures going around on Snapchat. Hence if you ever see someone's dating profile with their Snapchat on it a lot of them specifically say no dick pics!! I guess it would get annoying if you are after a relationship and you just get horny guys messaging you. You see loads of people on twitter and Instagram showing DMs they've had from guys with their cocks out, maybe I just have a funny timeline, I don't follow these people but if you just search for snap me or add my Snapchat something like that on twitter you'll get a ton of naked girls asking for people to pay for their snaps and a load of guys just with cock pics on twitter, I didn't even think that was allowed !! But the fact I see it happening all the time almost normalises it. I'm pretty sure if it's not then it's gonna be a proper criminal offence soon too for just sending an unsolicited picture, I always ask if they wanna see first and don't just send a nude without consent but still it's a concern that I'm doing something illegal just in a way of harassment or something. I think it's helping writing on here, it's just not a quick fix to get rid of habits.

    The problem is there's always some girl that'll be into it and start sending nudes back, which kinda normalises it as well. But it's always a 1 in a 100 kinda thing, spend so long just adding random people just to find that one who's into it. If there was just some kind of list of girls who would like to sext with randoms so you weren't going through all the pissing people off messages then everything would be fine. As it is this is a terrible way to behave. But if some girls do that then is it even a bad thing? Yes! Yes it is. I need / want to stop it. I don't wanna waste any more of my time doing something that ultimately makes me depressed afterwards.

    It's the rationalisation of it all. Because the last time I did it a few girls were sending dirty stuff back I didn't feel so guilty afterwards, whereas other times when nobody has been into it I feel horrible the next day like I've just been a terrible human being annoying people with my hornyness. I'll think to myself, well I'll create a Snapchat profile with a name that clearly states my intentions, how can that be bad? If they aren't into it, they'll get a message saying naked snaps wants to message you so instantly they'll think no and decline, no harm done! Not like I'm trying to trick anyone into a friendship then SNAP random cock picture. I just need to get out of that frame of mind, even now when I'm typing it I'm like yeah, not doing any harm, and the ones who do accept the message seem to like the pictures so much they send one back what's that harm!! It's such a toxic mindset to be in. The fact I've been writing this message at 6am for the last half an hour kinda shows how much I don't wanna be doing it and how much it plays on my mind. I just need to move on and find more rewarding things to do with my time! Understand that there's better things to be doing with my life....

    Sorry big rant to myself again. Probably not making any sense. Just writing things down to get them out
     
    Last edited: Jan 4, 2020
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