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Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Hold it in, Dec 5, 2019.
Oh, I believe I know, what are you talking about. It's also called point of million dollars or something. You can postpone orgasm pressing it. It's something what Tibet monks was selling information about a long time ago, have read this stories in tantra book.
Pizza, ‘tis better to have loved and lost your plastic toy than never to loved it at all.
*Silicone, it's not plastic.
Partially exectly because of love I came to this. Because of first love, because of wish to be loved I got so insanely huge amount of problems in my life. So, it's very questionable what is better. I'm personally concentrated on career, popularity and ability to create something that people like, maybe business in the future, not on love. And porn ruins everything of what I want. I'm not sure that I will seek love ever again, maybe only sex and friends who is not against having sex without responsibilities. So, I have hid toy for better future, by the moment it will not help for sure.
Do as you wish, but do you really think the best version of yourself spends his time being jerked off by a machine?
The best for person is not allways the best from the point of view of society (Best version of youself sounds like this conception). It's maybe not popular opinion here, but machines and sex toys for some people may be more usefull, then socially accepted and supported marriage and children. For me in past love and relationship has done a lot more bad, then good, I wish I could just enjoy sex toys and concentrate on more important things for me like career and education back in the past. So. Depends. Just saying. But of'course you need to understand why you are doing this and your addiction to make a right decision. It's must not be done blindly.
This thread is a f'ing advertising thread where OP is plugging his fascination.
I'm glad I didn't come across this crap any earlier. Imagine lying on your death bed and just seeing yourself jacking off with some mechanic machine, while the rest of your pathetic life is an emotional wasteland. In the meantime you are missing out on a wholesome and intended relationships with a woman. We all know the empty feeling that can come just from PMO. Now imagine this.
The thread started with "I know it's pathetic" but it seems that side of the story got forgotten quite quickly in the dialogue.
This website, for all its value, is mostly populated by people who don’t see shades of gray. Toys have a value, masturbation has a value, even escorts for the chronically sexually needy. Just not as a total replacement for life, not as an obsession, not as a fetish.
I want things in their proper place and intended purpose. Nothing is inherently bad, but if you do something damaging or pathetic and calling it a "shade of gray" it just shows a lack of judgement and wisdom.
Sorry my tempered and nuanced comment doesn’t arise to your standards of “wisdom”. I will lose much sleep over your judgment.
And yet here you are. Getting offended. Next you'll be telling me I made you look at my topic, anyways if my topic bothered you that much perhaps you didn't have to go out of your way to tell everyone just how agasht you are?
Laying on my death bed? I wont be thinking about all my sexual endeavors. Maybe that's hard for you to believe because you're so offended but it's true, I think there are bigger things to think about when one dies besides what you did with your sex life but maybe thats just me
Now imagine this. Yeah we all love hypotheticals, but imagine you not clicking this topic. Seems like your whole world would have been better
Anyways, I was just sharing something personal to me. Maybe I had to get it off my chest, but one thing is for sure. I will Never share something so personal to me on here again. It's not that I don't mind ridicule, I just do not like having to explain myself because you think I need your approval for sharing my experience here
Just sick of it
Hold it in, your posting is valid and pertinent. Don’t choose to be offended by this guy, his misguided self sureness and absolutist view is the kind of unquestioning fetish-like moralizing that is messing up the world. We are here because we are imperfect and want to be better. Perfect is not the goal, and we want to be able to discuss what we are without judgment. You are in the right place, he is not.
I'm not offended. I'm tired, but point taken. Perhaps maybe somebody else has been through the same thing I have but just wondered
anyways, Merry Christmas! Hope everyone has a great holiday.
I do use sex toys, so I don't think it is very bad or strange or anything in between. I feel like sex toys are just another way of self-expression and they are a tool that you use to achieve the sexual high you desire. I have been using toys on my partners for a few years now and I find it very stimulating to see them being helpless or on the verge of climaxing just because I made them. It gives me moral satisfaction. I have a fairly large collection of vibrators, some anal plugs as well as different ties and ropes for restraining. I usually buy it all in an adult novelty store. They have a really nice selection of toys and they are always very good quality, so I come back each time for more.