Ok so long story short 2 years ago I found out my h is a porn addict. Today he finally gave me a full disclosure. But basically all my questions were answered and basically I know everything nothing really new. The thing that bothers me is that he claims he was never into any real women he worked with or anyone else he knew. Claims he never checks women out ect. Now I know about him messaging women he worked with, not sexting, but really crossing lines, like asking them how far they have gone with their boyfriends ect. He would even randomly ask "send me a pic" no not asking for nudes, but I really wonder if he wasn't HOPING for something like that. Some of the pictures to me they sent were borderline sexy. (Minimal but still). Also he had list after list of favorite porn stars I found, and one list no title was of women he worked with. He would also go online and copy photos of women he knew (many didn't even know, they worked in other departments) and he saved pics to his phone. So am I CRAZY??? Is it even possible for a man to be addicted and NOT check out every woman he comes across? Is it possible for them to NOT fantasize about other women when they are watching HOURS of porn a day? I just don't see how that is even possible! Is he in denial or totally playing me?