Addiction to Gay porn for Straight people

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Oh Susannah -James Taylor, Dec 2, 2019 at 1:04 AM.

  1. Oh Susannah -James Taylor

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    I started off 8 years ago only watching lesbian porn. That’s how I’ve spent the most of my porn-watching life but over the past year, I have slowly gotten more curious about gay porn. I watched it a few times and it didn’t really turn me but then all of a sudden, it started turning me on a lot. It felt so wrong and it was so different, and I had been looking for other ways to pleasure myself because I was getting bored with the same old stuff. It feels weird to say this out loud but this is a forum for this stuff. I started fingering my butthole over the past 2 months but that led me to really get turned on by gay porn. I don’t believe I am gay. I have had moments where I’m like, “Huh maybe I am” but then I see a girl walk by that really catches my eye and I’m like there’s just no way I’m gay. I’ve never really been turned on by a guy in person, just on porn. This seems like an OCD thing to me though because the small voice in my head just constantly questions my sexuality to me every day. I’m working on nofap and its been a couple weeks. I would like to kind of figure out if these homosexual feelings will go away with me quitting watching porn. Sorry if this is all over the place lol but my mind is kind of all over the place right now. Also on top of that, I’m in love with my best friend who’s a girl but she’s a lesbian. ON TOP OF THAT, she’s been sending me weird mixed signals over the last year that add furthermore to the confusion. Thanks for your time guys
    -Oh, Susannah -James Taylor
     
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  3. Esalawaa

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    Yes you can go . However , if you keep watching porn, you will ended up having gay sex even though you’re not gay. Just to feel something different and exiting
    Porn addiction create gay people, rapers, and mora. It’s scary and dangerous
     
  4. Oh Susannah -James Taylor

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    I’m really working to quit watching porn. I didn't even realize porn addiction was a real thing till like 2 weeks ago and I’m glad that there is a forum where we can talk about our struggles with it. Obviously quitting will be a challenge but I downloaded a NoFap calender to keep track of the days its been while on my way to 90. As far as my situation with my lesbian best friend, I feel like being in love with her may also be a result of my porn addiction cuz I’ve been friends with her for 5 years. I had initially had feelings for her when she told me she was lesbian that long ago and my strong feelings went away until February of this year.
     
  5. ultrafabber

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    I've been writing about this, mainly how masturbation is basically classical conditioning for homosexual behavior, but the mods don't want my posts in high visibility places and move them to offtopic where very people read them.

    Too bad to see nofap actively suppressing discussion that can help people.
     
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    Honestly I would love some more advice on the topic if you have some! I’m very new to the nofap forums and its been very helpful so far. For sure wish I found it months ago
     
  7. ultrafabber

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    Long story short, because masturbation and watching "straight" porn are not heterosexual acts but rather BIsexual, mostly homosexual (i'd say 80% homosexual). So it is inevitable that a pmo addict will, sooner or later, get hocd or transexual fetishes etc. This also depends on the amount of real sex he has. If he has very little to no sex but masturbates a lot, the hocd/trans/sissy stuff will break out sooner. So the ratio of real sex/masturbation is important too.

    Classical conditioning (Pavlov's Dog) shows that you can pair any stimuli to any reward and that is that happens in pmo addicts in two ways.

    1. through watching porn and seeing the male and other erect penises while being aroused himself. So it overlaps homosexual stimuli with heterosexual stimuli. Watching others have sex was virtually non-existent in the past. And during actual sex you rarely even see your own penis.

    2. though the act of masturbation itself as sexual pleasure is associated with "penis awareness" and stroking penis. The harder one strokes penis, the harder one gets aroused. It is an inescapable act and fact.

    The greatest offender of the two is masturbation as it involves real sensory stimuli.

    There is already proof that people that identify as bisexual watch/watched more porn and that bi/gay people started masturbating earlier and masturbate more.
     
    Last edited: Dec 5, 2019 at 8:29 AM

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