Addiction to porn that turned into Shemale addiction

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by topbwoydiss, Aug 13, 2017.

How can I overcome shemale fetish/addiction?

  1. Ask for help

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  2. Watch normal porn and then slowly you'll drift from that shit

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  3. Quit porn in general.

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  1. BrandoCommando

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    Thats very comforting to hear. I'm new here and this is a problem I also struggle with. I would like to read that research article if you could add the link I'd appreciate it.
     
  2. This article:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/who...philic-men-characterizing-men-sexual-interest

    Comments: Men who become attracted to transgender (colloquially, shemale) porn/partners are typically heterosexual in their identification and arousal patterns--that is, typically not homosexual or even bisexual.

    The researchers are unable to speculate why this taste develops, but many internet porn users ascribe this fetish to heavy internet porn use and the search for something more novel over time. Many also report it disappears after quitting porn.

    The YBOP article includes the research study it draws on.
     
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  3. jordi10

    jordi10 New Fapstronaut

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    Pls help me sorry for digging this post i watch shemale porn for so long i have no more friend i feel terribly bad like i'm forcing myself to enjoy it but i'm straight my soul is teared apart everyday of my life is a lie and everyday it's getting worst i keep lying to everybody and i lost so much friends this addiction is destroying my life since i'm 15 and i'm 21 now pls i need help i don't know what to do...i love womans and i don't know why i like shemales but this is not me i swear this is really not me i can feel it in my bones that i'm doing the wrong thing...
     
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  4. {Ananta}

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    dont worry/ panic your self too much , we just need to understand how our biology works , we men have a ever need to reproduce no matter the situation ,lets pretend we exist millions of years back the dawn of everything ,we walk down the jungle path ,all of a sudden we see a attractive female ,we become aroused so that we can procreate, so we procreate , the next day we go down another path we find another female of course we become aroused but this time we see another male interacting with her but all of a sudden you become more aroused then last time when it was just her, you so now your aroused 10 times more then aroused with a male in the equation, this is because it is a survival mechanism we gotta have a higher libido then the other male cause this is now a competition ,you gotta last to mate with her the most, so when you walk down a street you see a man that a woman would consider attractive an all of a sudden you become aroused by him its not because your gay its your surviial mechanism doing what its suppose to do, so when you keep walking you past him an race him to the next female thats why shemale porn is popular theres lots of men confused whats going on confused why the male an female genitial are both in the equation causing high arousal the porn industry is high jacking the male minds, taking advantage of this, i say reset your mind an body with afew months of nofap along with this idea, im not a doctor or anything im just a cook who plays the guitar on his spare time so this is just something i believe which makes sense
     
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  5. JHT98

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    We all know porn can destroy our lifes. Don’t panic, you need help from a addiction therapist or something. Besides you have to be motivated to beat the addiction. Block all the porn websites, try to avoid the triggers as many as you can and pray to God. He can help you.

    I think you need to search a therapist. You also have to think about why you watch porn. Are you lonely? Do you have low self confidence? A great task for you to improve these struggles. If you need to talk with me, send me a private message.
     
  6. jordi10

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    Well thank you guys for being there, i really thought i was alone in this world with this problem, it's so weird because i know gay people and they are happy to be gay they don't deny it, but it's like i forced myself to like it at first, and now i can't stop thinking about it, i mean i removed 270Gb of shemale porn of my computer i'm clean now but there is still some shemales actress i'm really really attracted to and i think it will be so hard to stop thinking about them, and about the peoples, it's so hard to hear friends/peoples saying jokes about faggots or gay, i step aside and always wonder how to react, i shouldn't be concerned because i'm not gay, but it stilm affect me because deep down i know what i'm doing every single day...and ye i'm lonely and i started watching porn after after my first break up with my girlfriend
     
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  7. {Ananta}

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    the world is changing so fast we get confused with what is what an how do we keep up, all i know is gay means masculinity is attracted to masculinity and femininity attracted to femininity , trans girls are actually femininity ,ever since i first discovered trans porn which was 20 years ago i was hooked on it,dont know why, for some years i was only interested in an i experienced E.D with natural born females, it was scary cause at that point i thought i was strictly gay now, and i didnt want to be, it caused huge problems in my past relationships with the females i was with, but now i discover nofap, my life has changed i feel like a new man, a new life, i find every type a female attractive no matter the shape, age, ethnicity,my longest streak is 140 days even thou i relapsed i still know ive healed tremendously and at this point nothing matters no more that i use to worry about cause i feel so great, no matter what lifestyle i end up with down the road im still happy cause im on nofap , since NoFap i havent dated nor have sex so im still curious about what the experience well be like, my only worry is well my anxiety attacks come back after i have sex,
     
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  8. I found tranny porn 30+ years ago, and the interest was very strong, however I continued to very much like porn with natural women too.

    And I can't say why the tranny stuff is a turn on either.

    I never got ED from any of it until last year, when I went from using almost all image porn to using video porn.
     
  9. {Ananta}

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    in the 90s is when i actually actually discovered the trans world but in a non porn way , on jerry springer when they revealed they are actually trans , my older sister always watched it cause it amused her, but i silently watched it with her i thought wow they look like real woman they are so attractive ,
     
  10. Speaking about private messages, how do you do it on this site? I can't find any pathway to it. (May all your goals be reached.)
     
  11. eaelite

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    I needed to write here i am almost the same as you but i got it far worse long story short i recieved computer far later than my peers so i didn't had any chance of watching porn when i was little but when i actually got computer i started watching porn at first it was normal but 4 years later i was fapping more than 10 times a day on some occasions i got to 16-17 times a day at first it was straight porn until 6 years ago where i accidentally stunned upon a tranny porn i even remember her name ... anyways i watched it and i didn't nut that hard in a long time but i actually didn't thought that maybe i was bi or gay first year of tranny porn addiction i was watching straight and tranny but soon that changed and i was into tranny porn i fantasised about it even the thought of fucking a tranny aroused me heck even when i write this now i get a little impulses i was watching everything you can imagine everything. So last year i went abroad to work it was pretty succesfull and i decided to actually stay and live there i stayed i found a house and there were some housemates (bare in mind i was watching tranny porn even then) yet one of them browsed through my history and found out i was watching tranny porn needless to say couple of days later i was getting constantly mocked i was gay, fag etc. even on work i had a gay closeted guy that everyone knows he is gay but he refuses to admit saying to me that i should be gay, this caused so much anxiety that on the day of christmas i got drunk and it if it wasn't for that 1 guy i wouldn't be typing this here. I was prepared to kill myself i am not joking even when i think of it now it causes me severe anxiety. 4 days after the incident i went home and i fucking got a mental breakdown my ocd got severe and i got anxiety and now at every fucking possibility i question my sexuality and it's hell it's pure hell i cannot continue like this if NoFap works it will change my life for better if it doesn't i will probably kill myself. Everything i typed is true and this is a summary i can write more details but i doubt anyone wants to read it.
     
  12. {Ananta}

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    nofap is the more important option for you then if suicide is on your mind, when it comes to nofap it has nothing to do with what sex you prefer it deals with the strength an discipline, takes you to another level im sure the majority arent even on yet, you well be ahead of the others , nofap helps with eliminating my stress, depression an anxiety , i have hopes it well help yours
     
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  13. OK for @eaelite and everybody else who watches this stuff and is afraid they are gay:

    Gay guys do NOT watch tranny/shemale/ladyboy porn! They have NO use for it - because they are not attracted to femininity. And while having a penis is a twist, the shemales and ladyboys do everything they can (besides the surgery to get rid of the penis) to look feminine.

    There has been scientific research where they measured the reactions of various kinds of guys to various kinds of porn and the guys who like shemale/ladyboy/tranny porn react towards the other kinds of porn (straight or gay) like the straight guys, not like the gay guys.

    There are multiple scientific names for guys who like shemales (and I'm not sure the science is in on people who just like them in porn as opposed to real life) - one of them is Gynandromorphophilia. That's quite a mouthful (if you'll excuse the expression, lol).

    So here is an abstract:

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26498424

    Who are gynandromorphophilic men? Characterizing men with sexual interest in transgender women.
    BACKGROUND:
    Gynandromorphophilia (GAMP) is sexual interest in gynandromorphs (GAMs; colloquially, shemales). GAMs possess a combination of male and female physical characteristics. Thus, GAMP presents a challenge to conventional understandings of sexual orientation as sexual attraction to the male v. female form. Speculation about GAMP men has included the ideas that they are homosexual, heterosexual, or especially, bisexual.

    METHOD:
    We compared genital and subjective sexual arousal patterns of GAMP men with those of heterosexual and homosexual men. We also compared these groups on their self-ratings of sexual orientation and sexual interests.

    RESULTS:
    GAMP men had arousal patterns similar to those of heterosexual men and different from those of homosexual men. However, compared to heterosexual men, GAMP men were relatively more aroused by GAM erotic stimuli than by female erotic stimuli. GAMP men also scored higher than both heterosexual and homosexual men on a measure of autogynephilia.

    CONCLUSIONS:
    Results provide clear evidence that GAMP men are not homosexual. They also indicate that GAMP men are especially likely to eroticize the idea of being a woman.​
     
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  14. Continuing my previous post, YBOP has the complete text of the article, plus the graphs of sexual response here: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/who...philic-men-characterizing-men-sexual-interest

    Here are the graphs:

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    These graphs show the reaction of various groups of men - heterosexual, homosexual, and men aroused by trans gendered aka shemales aka ladyboys aka trannys. That last group are labeled GAMP, for "Gynandromorphophilia", the scientific name used in this paper for those men.

    So the botom axis shows the different kinds of videos the men were shown, and the height of points in the graph increase with increased arousal.

    There are 2 graphs because they measured the arousal of the men 2 different ways: they asked the men how much each sample of porn aroused them ("Subjective Arousal"). The "Genital Arousal" graphs were produced by direct measurement of genital reaction: "Genital arousal was assessed using an indium-gallium strain gauge that measured changes in the circumference of the penis."

    As is apparent in the graphs, the GAMP men reacted to erotic videos of men and those of women, just like the heterosexual men. The GAMP men reacted more strongly to the GAM (shemale/tranny) porn than the heterosexual men, as expected. The homosexual men reacted much less strongly to the tranny porn that did the GAMP men, and a little less strongly than the heterosexual men.

    The science is in: the guys who like shemale videos are not gay.
     
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  15. {Ananta}

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    seeing gamp men fantasize about being a woman, wouldnt that characterize a man as gay at some part
     
  16. No it's actually considered a variant of heterosexuality. I'll admit I don't fully understand it. I do know that the ladyboy stuff turns me on like a radio, but I have never for one instant wanted to be a woman.

    The following is quoted from the study at the YBOP link.

     
  17. {Ananta}

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    i identify as a gamp male, when watching P in the trans genre i fantasize about playing the female role, but i also watch alot of cam sites, trans cam girls but just watching the trans girl is arousing but i dont fantasize about being the cam girl just viewing her feminine body is arousing ,i watching trans vlogs on youtube, an i fantasize about being in a relationship with trans girls ,i tell myself its just a phase ,theres no reason to act upon these desires,these urges cause if i do then down the road all the
     
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  18. LookUp

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    All I can say is exact same experience and very glad it stopped before things escalated. I too find it disgusting when done. I could never face the real thing. I think in time that danger will become more real without stopping. Everyone that's mentioned this happening in this fashion lost any thoughts about most any kink stuff. Like a guy said. Now my flavor is vanilla, and vanilla is good!
     
  19. eaelite

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    Thank you for the replies it was somewhat encouraging i just started NoFap but it's very difficult.
     
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  20. Yes. Normies would say "But there's s penis there!" and certsinly there is, but it is the more feminine ones that are most exciting.

    If you were using enough porn you probably would have had ED with anybody.

    That is very interesting: so in one situation you do have that fantasy and in the other you do not? Do you have any idea why that is?
    I don't usually feel disgusted when I'm done. But it's been 30+ years since got into this.

    And I will admit that in the early 2000s I did pick up a few tranny hookers. It didn't get very intense because I hate condoms and these ladies were not going to be unsafe. I never did take the dick.

    Even though I was watching a ton of tranny porn last year before I escalated to hookers I did not use any tranny hookers at that point. It seems to be a porn only desire on my part. Which is interesting I have porn desires and I have real life desires and they are not the same in all cases. Or maybe I'm scared - prostitution is illegal here so there are already all sorts of problems associated with that.
     
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