Advice for wearing condoms ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Chris3000, Sep 7, 2017.

  1. Chris3000

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    I'm on day 5 of no PM, after having relapsed a couple of times this month. (I'm pretty confident I can keep a long streak going this time.) Anyways, I easily get erections when I'm with my girl, whether it's kissing, cuddling, etc. I haven't used a condom in a very long time , and since I was an avid masturbator as a teenager , putting them on easily made me lose my erection. This morning was my first time putting on a condom with my girl, and as soon as I put it on I started going soft. It felt almost numb. Because of this I quickly lost my erection and sex didn't happen. Right before I tried putting it on , I had a pretty hard one too.

    I realize that I'm early in my streak but does anyone have suggestions for quickly getting over this condom thing? Do you think trying them on over time while I have an erection is a good idea to see how long I last ? Or should I just wait it out and hope that the sensitivity will return to normal ?
     
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  2. SelfControlIsTheGoal

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    Wait until it more sensitive for sure.
     
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  3. Third_Eye

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    Wait until you completely reboot.
     
  4. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    It helps your erections?
     
  5. ValueLiberty

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    Try non latex condoms. I recommend Polypropylene, every drug store has them. Those used to work for me.

    That said now that I am in my 30's and in a steady relationship I could never go back to condoms.
     
  6. A natural option to tadalafil is daily use of maca root and L-Citrulline (found in watermelon) I buy mine from gordon vitality
     
  7. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    Same. Once I get a girlfriend, no more condoms. Ever.
     
  8. Chris3000

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    I actually tried horny goat weed pills that were a natural combination of maca, L-arginine and other things that were supposed to naturally increase libido. They worked pretty well.
     
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  9. Time heals all.
     
  10. Steve1453

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    Is your avatar that German philosopher whose name I can't spell, or someone who looks very much like him ?
     
  11. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    How long are the erections from taking that medicine?
     
  12. Chris3000

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    Yeah it's Nietzsche.
     
  13. Nighthigh

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    I do not think you need any substance to stay hard with a condom. Maybe you are shy to wear one with your girl or maybe you have the feeling that sex is useless with a condom on. Try to get your girl involved with the small rubber sock some way. She could chose the color, the taste or even help putting it on.
     
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  14. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    My erections are not hard enough due to PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) so condoms sometimes are tricky. I just need to heal my erections. I can have them, but they just need to be harder (pun intended lol).
     
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  15. Steve1453

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    Was he really photographed with a gun, or has that pic been doctored ?
     
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  16. Veronico

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    Lmao, no it's a photoshop. Google Nietzsche, that photo is without the gun.
     
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  17. Steve1453

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    Mind you, he was so odd that it could be genuine ! hahahaaaa
     
  18. Chris3000

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    Easily One of my favorite philosophers
     
  19. Steve1453

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    Did you know that he was a composer too ?
     
  20. Veronico

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    Lol, you are right though x). He's known for his crazy self and philosophy so yeah that photo could have been genuine LOL.
     

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