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Advice on how to hide my superhornyness?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Deleted Account, Jul 30, 2019.

  1. I have the issue with not knowing how to stop being horny. That doesn't sound right... all of you get the picture. I don't know what to do, I took a cold shower which helped a little, and I am not reverting back to PMO as I am disgusted and ashamed if I did so... buut I have no idea what I can do. Also, I live in a small town, not a city so this makes things much harder. Please advise
     
  2. Think you cannot stop it. You can get accustomed to be not satisfied after a few weeks, then the hornyness may flatten to normal levels again. In acute cases it may help if you concentrate on different activities.
     
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  3. Davinblake

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    Hornyness huh? You think your girls, do not force not to think about it, force yourself to think about something else. First mental activity (like maths i don't know) then phisical, then good eating, then drinking, then householding and cleaning, then organization, then meditation, NO GAMING, then books, then friends. Still got time to think about girls?
    BTW THIS IS VITAL: you can't stop a thought, you'll just lock it somewhere. Let it be while you do stuff, you can't control fear or hatred, then why should you control hornyness? Just do something else and leave it in "background"
     
  4. Boanerges777

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    No you should not suppress your sexuality it’s natural God gave it to us for a reason. If you suppress it it will grow stronger. Let it flow, meditate and abstain from all sexual thought and meditate. Read a book called the bliss of the celibate
     
  5. Boanerges777

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    It your super horny that means you have been fantasying anyway which will destroy your semen retention super powers
     
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  6. kingbob3

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    Day 27.

    You are all unbelievably cool, some of you do not understand how crazy the thing they are doing. We are breaking the laws of nature. We can control our Instinct of reproduction. We are less than 1% of the world's population. Do not stop. "You're breathtaking".

    Thats what I read on reddit as soon as I opened my mac. Its really cool and motivating. But I think I am on a flatline again.
    Yesterday again filth got in my head and guess what without watching anything which could trigger an urge. My memories triggered my filth, more I recalled more dopamine I got. Well every one would have experienced some intimate moments with their opposite gender, so I think my dopamine deprived brain was triggering my urge by recalling my those memories, and that too by making them so vivid, to minuscule details. Thankfully it did not made my urges so potent, that I would be regretting my actions. But it made me mull upon my decision of this journey. I became skeptical whether I would be healed or not. Or I will fall into the trap again and at some point maybe on day 36th or 68th or 89th I will give up and then binge again to porn.

    Thats how harmones play with your brain. It makes you weak, so that you become vulnerable and you give up. I have made a regime, I am following it with dedication, discipline and a strong desire to make it to the other side. I will meet with these kind of depressed times when my brain will want a dopamine hit, I will confront some uncomfortable, embarrassing and failure moments which will make me more vulnerable for a dopamine hit, in those moments I need to stay strong and remember why I started this whole journey.
    DESIRE.
    THE STARTING POINT OF ALL ACHIEVEMENT IS DESIRE. KEEP THIS CONSTANTLY IN MIND.

    Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat. If you find yourself lacking in persistence, this weakness may be remedied by building a stronger fire under your desires.
    The above quotes were from this amazing book "Think and grow rich" by Napolean Hill which I recommend every one to read it at least three times. Why three times? Because then only the golden concepts of the book(in general, which everyone think they already know) will go deep in your subconscious mind and then you will start applying those concepts to elevate yourself.

    Today I would like to motivate myself and recall the day 0 of my journal so that the memory of my goal becomes more vivid and I stay on my path, also more fire is generated under my desires(goal), so that I become more strong with my decision to achieve my recovery and become a better human being in this overall journey of nofap.
    I would like to thank all the people those who care to even read my posts, cuz you are helping me by helping yourself.


    Read my other posts in my journal and comment on it if you like, it would be a boost in my confidence, to fight and finally achieve my goal.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-streak-join-me-and-elevate-yourself.240120/
     
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  7. Boanerges777

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    Day 26 here
     
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  8. Davinblake

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    So it wasn't only me, was it?
    Practically your brain is trying to make you feel what you usually felt before fapping to make you fap again. In the next 2 months (approx.) You will be fighting against yourself. Just remember that whenever you feel horny now it's not because you are, but because your brain wants Dopamine, she needs it, she can't survive (or can she? Bet). Sounds like those cocaine addicts doesn't it?


    Btw, here I am around day 300 i think, check my counter, it's accurate
     
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  9. kingbob3

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    I would love to be on your level mate, how does it feel to be on a streak of 300+ days. I have been following nofap for more than two years or so, with many sporadic streaks of 30 days, sometimes 40+. My best was 65 days, and after every successful streak when I relapsed I binged for many months. So I am scared that in this streak also I might fall. So I want help from some one who has achieved that goal you see. I dont want filth in my life, I want to be an alpha. Who decides something in life and achieve it, not some looser. Please help me, elevate myself to a level like yours. Also tell me what worked for you, so that I can be prepared and overcome those trying times.
     
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  10. kingbob3

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    You can achieve whatever is in your mind mate. Wish you all the strengths.
     
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  11. I really want to know this, too. How does it feel to be in a very long streak. I know it's very hard to tell.
     
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  12. kingbob3

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    Day 28.

    "You Give is What You Get."-Les Brown


    Going extremely strong with my dedication, discipline and desire to go on the other side and become a responsible human being. Its like a dream coming true. Its like a feeling when you wake and you thought you missed your school bus, ohh snap you are 26year old graduate. Life is beautiful indeed and its looking beautiful as a result of my 3D's stated above, else I would be looking at filth every where by now. Now I am excited every morning to pass my day more efficiently unlike before. In next two days a major target number will be achieved which will boost my confidence through the roof and after that I have decided to add on some major exercises in my regime which will help channelize my excess sexual energy, else there will be always a chance to fall back into the filth.
    Yesterday night two times I saw some explicit content in my dream. But since I have not been watching any thing explicit the connection which my brain has with the filth is starting to loose, so even after having a boner and sleeping on my tummy I controlled my dreams and did not achieve any mental or real orgasm, no fluid excretion happened neither in my dream or in real. It was like I was saying to the maidens in my dream "sorry ladies I am on nofap". Indeed a good sign. I have realized that once you start your journey you have the option in your brain to have the filthy thoughts(&enjoy) or say no(Iam not supposed to be thinking like that), if you control those thoughts you can win over and control your subjective mind, thats what I did.
    Now, two days after today after I would have achieved 30successful days of nofap, I know that I can control my subjective mind, albeit I will be in need to utilize the accumulated excess sexual energy, else this energy might become a potential threat to a relapse. I need to be prepared. I have few plans in mind. Physical and mental activities I am already doing, I need to add on few more things.
    I read about Sex Transmutations in this amazing book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napolean Hill. I don't know much about it, but I will figure something out and will add it here if something concrete comes out. Till then I want to reach a bigger audience and revert to their kind replies on my posts, so that I can help them in their journey. This is the root which every one should draw their motivation from. Thats how human race has flourished and will continue to flourish and prosper in the future. More people I am accountable to more 3D's(Desire, Discipline and Dedication) of mine will be bolstered and will help me to stay on my path to reach on my higher self. Thats what is the quote of the day.

    Read my other posts in my journal and find out my ups downs in the journey, you will learn a lot. Also comment on it if you like, it would be a boost in my confidence, to fight and finally achieve my goal.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-streak-join-me-and-elevate-yourself.240120/
     
  13. kingbob3

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    its very difficult to sum it up in a single line or so.
    But I would recommend if you really wanna know and learn how to get started, read my journal. I have tried to post every minuscule detail of every day of my journey albeit not very big one but still there is significant amount of content to learn from day0to day28 journal of mine.

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-streak-join-me-and-elevate-yourself.240120/
     
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  14. kingbob3

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    Day 29.

    I feel a little weak on knees today.
    You are what you say and definitely what you write. Yesterday I wrote the following quote.

    So today I had morning wood and again some beautiful maiden was with me in my dream and she was making love to me in the best of her capacity. Now I came into my senses and I wanted to wake up, but I didn't. I believe she was very good with her head. In short filth came over me and it was all over my brain, releasing dopamine when I was not in my senses. I did not achieve an orgasm. But I am meticulously revisiting my dream because I let filth win over me and I said to myself "enjoy" instead of waking up. Of course I woke up horny. This was a mistake, my mistake. I accept it, and I learn from it. Albeit, I boasted yesterday that I can control my subjective mind.

    A lot of reinforcement needs to be done, to make a strong foundation so it doesn't shake with minor quakes of filth. Then only I will become filth free. There is no shortcut to success, every day counts and everyday brings my other self closer to me. I want to remember my purpose again today that why I am on this journey.
    I need to travel to the other side. So that I become completely filth free, pristine headed. I must draw motivation from my purpose. I need to keep all my focus on the goal and not in the journey.

    I felt elated answering few questions by fellow fapstraunauts. This feeling shouldered me with more responsibility to hang in my journey with more dedication, discipline and desire to succeed, because my actions are accountable to my audience, so I need to make a good role model out of my behaviour. I request all those who are struggling with their journey to seek out help in the universe, universe will respond and help you elevate your level, cuz starting point of any achievement is desire. Stronger the desire stronger the chances to win.


    Read my other posts in my journal and find out ups downs I encountered in my small journey, you will learn a lot. Also comment on it if you like, it would be a boost in my confidence, to fight and finally achieve my goal.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-streak-join-me-and-elevate-yourself.240120/
     
  15. @kingbob3 ... No matter what, today you do not have to give in. Not today.
    That maiden in your dream was nothing but the little addicted you devilishly draped in silken lingerie about to present her tender, soft and bare skin to you for you to start longing and craving so she can then drag you over and drop you in front of that computer to make you watch at porn again.
    And what you see mirroring back in the screen, in between the bodies of that presentation of industrialized lust, that fake promise, there in the black spots of your screen you will see your own grimace and hear her laughing maliciously.
     
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  16. kingbob3

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    Your words are really motivating, thanks. I am going strong. 30days completed today. Cheers to that.
     
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  17. kingbob3

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    Day 30.

    CHEERS to the day.
    A major achievement in my streak, after what not I have left behind.
    I would like to thank this forum, every morning I came here and posted my feelings through my words and the vibes which I got in return first thing in the morning was simply amazing. Its like an online temple for me now. The energy of all the members of this forum really motivated me and helped me cut the filth out of my brain. Since all the members are abstaining form negativity so their accumulated positive energy can be sensed in their words. Thats the reason why people of different religion visit their pious place of worship, to get the vibes from that place which will subside their worldly pains, sufferings and instill in them hope, positivity, will power and peace of mind.
    Today the connection which my brain has with filth is frail and weak. And I must continue with my streak so that I can completely cut it out, and increase my standard of living.
    I started posting my journal posts to some other journals which were there in the forum, just to get the maximum reach over the audience, with the intent that more notifications will elate me every morning when I open my computer and it really did, I did revert to some of the comments, many of the members did message me also. But someone didn't liked it so I would like to apologize for my actions and commit not to repeat it, cuz even if one person gets negativity from me it will come back to me snowballing and I don't want to end up where I started. Please bare me with the last one.

    Read my other posts in my journal and find out ups downs I encountered in my small journey of 4weeks, you will learn a lot. Also comment on it if you like, it would be a boost in my confidence, to fight and finally achieve my goal.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-streak-join-me-and-elevate-yourself.240120/
     
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  18. 30 days! CONGRATULATIONS bud, well done. Stay surfing on those tempting waves never falling off the board and enjoy the ride as much as you can.
     
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  19. kingbob3

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    I will thanks. Long way to go. Appreciate your words.
     
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  20. Davinblake

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    In my case, getting out of fapping wasn't an urge problem, it was all about understanding that I wouldn't have lost anything by not masturbating anymore. I was genuinely scared of losing a part of myself. But that varies to everybody, you have to understand what is making you fap WHEN you are trying not to, to me eliminating that was a way to be more conscious during urges. Maybe ever try using a site blocker, BlockSite is good. Just remember a site blocker won't stop your urge it will just give you more levels to access the site.
    It does feel good when you get over 100 days. I felt as happy as I was before fapping (so when I was at elementary/middle school) and though:"damn, how much time loss in which I could've experieced happiness", but then I just started having new habits, studying again, getting involved, and doing all sort of stuff. But what happens to you is very personal and I keep mine as a part of my personality now.
    Other than that not too much happens, but you do get so much more time to do anything you want.
    It is hard to describe how it is, i'd say you got to look at it yourself ;)
     

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