Hi. My SO and I are working through a porn addiction. I am working through a porn addiction. We are solid on that. My main problem comes from the fact that i can't, can not, make myself tell my wife when i have had a setback. Why? I love my wife, i trust my wife, i even believe now that my wife would be more supportive and less hurt if i told her and she didn't have to find out that i had lied. So why can't i tell her if i had a setback? That is an actual question because i have thought and researched and introspected but come up with nothing that is true so maybe i am just to close to this. So tldr version: why do i lie to my wife about setbacks even though it only causes us both more pain?