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Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Barnabas_, May 15, 2019.
Absolutely true..you tube is dangerous
I like that you put God first. With this priority, everything else should fall in place automatically.
Ps 37:4: "Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
Good job keep going
Today 17 months without porn and masturbation.
Awesome congrats bro!
Well done pal. Keep going and stay strong!
I am grateful for this website, people here as well as things I have learnt in this place during this time.
I use youtube for videos on motivation. I also watch tedx vids.
Is your skin clearer?
I myself have relapsed several times while watching YouTube. Even when I felt no desire to fap. Images, or footage, of certain women would trigger PMO!
Me too, have the same experience as you brother.
Started to use Wizmage Image Hider last year, find it very helpful.
Wizmage but also this program: https://accountable2you.com/ where very important steps in recovery in the last (nearly) 18 months - both advised by my Accountibility Partner I met here on this website.
Finally, also thanks to this site I understood what edging is and stopped doing it last year.
I am very grateful for nofap.com. Have learnt a lot from it and some people here.
Now live your life happily and peacefully with your family.
Congrats on your success.
@Barnabas_ can you give examples and elaborate on your first post when you said your relationship with fear changed. You said you fear things a lot less?
I'd say three things:
1. Fear and anxiety about the future are much less intensive than before. I am not saying that that it has disapeared but is lower. My life used to be dominated by guilt and shame about the past and fear about the future.
2. More courage in interaction with others, new people I meet.
3. Probably most important - without shame and guilt as a consequence of P and M there is less fear. I realised also that fear or anger were often secondary emotions to shame/guilt (which are roots).
Thanks barnabas_ I can really relate to what you just said especially the bit where you say
I'm like that right now, in fact I literally used those exact same words to describe myself yesterday. I hope can reach a place where you are now by finally getting rid of PM
19 months free from P & M today.
Congrat on your success, how many months did you need to have sex. do you still have premature ejaculation?? how was your erection quality now?is it frequent?when will you resume sex?