After such a great and rousing speech..

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ravefist, Jan 5, 2019.

  1. Ravefist

    Ravefist Fapstronaut

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    I relapsed twice in the last two days. Honestly, I dont feel that bad, I feel as if I am ready for change. Now. I guess that's how we all feel on day one, right? Man, I just can't think of the kind of damage I've done. Do you become a subhuman when you masturbate 22 times in 9 months? That's how it feels, but I'm going to change. There must be a reason why we all are experiencing this change, and why we all WANT to change, even if not all of us are as committed as the best of us..
     
  2. Ravefist

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    ...still feels terrible though. Why did I waste my last 9 months at virtually the best place in the world with this habit? Why? What must I do to recover? If anyone can help, I'll do everything. Going back to my daily log.
     
  3. I used to rack up that number on a slow week! But I think you're on the right track now. Write down your goals again, share them with everyone here. Get yourself and accountability partner and start again. Optimists never give up, they understand its just one poor habit they need to tackle and there is nothing inherently wrong with them as a person.

    One thing I personally do EVERY SINGLE DAY is to read the thread called "6years clean". Search for it. 1 chapter everyday. NoFap and rebooting is always on my mind everyday and I never get too far to forget.
     
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  4. rinzler 2.0

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    I just didn't understand what this means ! I tried reading about it, but couldn't understand ! Could you help me ?

    Exactly, way to go friend and Good Luck, Keep up !
     
  5. DogDaysOfLife

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    @Ravefist: abstaining from PMO is not intended to be a silver bullet to life's problems. I think that many of us are hooked on "easy pleasures" in general. So abstaining from PMO is just one step to restore balance and progress to our lives. Most men on this planet ejaculate more than once a week, whether that's through masturbation, intercourse, or both. So in my honest opinion, your average of less than once per week shows a level of delayed gratification and self-control that should serve you well in other areas of life. Consider working on those other areas, whatever they may be.
     
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  6. rinzler 2.0

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  7. Mattew

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    22 times in nine month is better than 30 times in one month.
     
  8. Ravefist

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    I don';t know how people are able to ejaculate that often. I nearly lose all my life force when I ejaculate, and doing it back to back within 24 hours left me with sever back pain and hairloss. I am on a strict regimen to recover form my ailments at the moment, and can share them with you all if you are interested.
     
  9. DogDaysOfLife

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    I'm kinda interested in your strict regimen because I hope you aren't giving yourself dietary deficiencies. I'm not a doctor though; don't take medical advice from me.
     
  10. Ravefist

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    I'm a vegetarian by choice. I consume a lot of fermented foods like Miso, Natto, Tofu, Cheese, Yogurt, etc; I am also including legumes, lentils, and various beans on a daily basis. To avoid any dietary deficiencies that may arise from negligence, I also take a daily multivitamin supplement as well.
     

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