Again Hocd Anxiety And Stress

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by YoungGunner00, Jun 19, 2020.

  1. YoungGunner00

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    Last Night I The Anxiety And Stress Attacked Again It Made Me To Think And Masturbate About My Friend I Finished But I Didn't Cum. I Feel More Stressed And Regretfull Now. this hocd is ruining my life and career I can't even focus on anything i just wanna lay down and think about compulsion and recheck myself. I didn't watched porn since 4-5 days. But i couldn't stopped masturbating once a day. I don't think about anybody but a friend of mine who's a little feminine. Please help
     
  2. Prince6543

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    Dude, Come on.
    Stop crying like a baby.
    You're so lucky that atleast you have a solution :- Abstaining from porn and NoFap.
    Here I am so fucked up I don't even know what are the possibilities that I can get rid of foot fetish and start liking other body parts that I never did.
     
  3. Ricardotardo

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    You need to accept that the hocd won't go away and you'll never heal if you keep falling into this trap. You will feel pain and there is no escaping it so just allow your self to feel the pain, understand why you have it, and use it to prevent you from doing it. The pain won't stop unless you feel it out.
     
  4. YoungGunner00

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    How to do that idk I'm just stuck i just want to go away. Im stuck in between these thoughts. Trying to accept doesn't work. Fighting with is also won't work.
     
  5. YoungGunner00

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    I'm just fed up dude can't even handle one day more. Can't even kill myself, can't fight the thoughts, trying to accept it but doesn't work
     
  6. DrabToLight

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    This an easy one. HOCD is a made-up thing. So, don't stress it. Porn CANNOT make you gay. Psychology Today quotes: "HOCD remains largely unrecognized in the larger therapeutic community". It's not real. You are straight. Porn is a lie. Live in the real world.
     
  7. fedmom

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    I think it's safe to say my posts on your thread went way over your head :D
     
  8. DrabToLight

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    Your Posts? My Thread? Must have because I have no idea what you are talking about.
     
  9. fedmom

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    You were saying on your "why I'm leaving" thread that you don't believe there is a paraphilia for being attracted to the same sex.
     
  10. DrabToLight

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    We’re science-based...

    HOCD is not Science
     
  11. MrAlkali

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    Honestly i dont think you understand what youre talking about to be fair. Ive seen multiple threads that you come in and its often the reverse to what it is
     
  12. fedmom

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    No worries. Stick to the nofap :)
     
  13. Maximus19

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    Can I a little more context dude?

    So things like how old you are, how long have you felt this way, are you attracted to women etc? It won't always be the case, but some people's situations are actually more clear than they realise. But then again, sexuality is a complex thing (I'm finding the myself), and still needs much more research into it imo.
     

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