Again on the Soulmate

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by EnterTheMatrix, Feb 29, 2020.

  1. EnterTheMatrix

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    Opened this site after long time today on 84th day on Nofap-Monk Mode(noPMO,Nosex, Noedging,notalking with girls), haven't been in contact or even talked with friends which are girls in these 84 days will continue this till 90th day and I believe that I will get my soulmate in 90-100 day of nofap-monk mode that's this is the reason I am doing nofap-monk mode which is not to talk with or flirt with girls also for my soulmate to come close to me by herself.
     
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  2. Is this really happening for finding finacee, i wanna do this. I took 90 challenge just day one before, please let me help, let me know the rules of monk monk
     
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  3. gagate

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    Repeat Kleem 1008 times a day, it's a powerful mantra for relationship
     
  4. SuperiorMan95

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    Read the book Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. You're welcome.
     
  5. Exit the Matrix

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    I LOVE rollo.
     
  6. Exit the Matrix

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    I do not think finding a soulmate works like that. During your monk mode phase you should be working on bettering yourself in some way with the powers you have accumulated.
     
  7. ctrl urself

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    Results may vary... but I found an amazing woman on day 33 (day 63 if you don’t count one relapse, not to porn). Girlfriend material and some. some context is important here, I consider myself “unlucky” in love. Women generally ignore me in a romantic sense, I rarely get past a second date. But she is completely different.

    She contacted me via fb randomly on day 30, wanted to date me, and it all happened. Again.. this never happens.

    my take - Nofap deeply healed some emotional wounding I had. It’s a work in progress, but don’t discount this aspect.. it’s huge. I had also done huge amounts of inner work before this. The magnetism drew her to me I believe, it was an amplifier and a crucial part of what’s happened.

    a very important piece of this process is also that I am DONE with pmo for ever. I know it in my bones. Such a powerful process. It’s taken 3 years and multiple week long streaks do do it, but I have broken the habit. The only person I share O with is a woman. I still plan on doing 1-2 week no O streaks as I feel. Luckily I can have sex and do this (tantra is amazing). I suppose I’m switching to easy mode now to finish my reboot, but I’m ok with that.

    so, I feel you increase your chances dramatically of finding love if you stick to this ✌️
     
  8. EnterTheMatrix

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    Monk mode rules as I consider are , no talking to girls from your side, no sex,no touching your private part only for cleaning or urination,no edging,no masturbation,not using porn , That's it, and I believe from 91-100 day we will find our soulmate, I am on 90th day monk mode today let's see what happens with me
     
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  9. EnterTheMatrix

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    Yeah it happens automatically, if it was not then we would not been able to monk mode
     
  10. the awakening

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    If y
    if you dont get out of the bat cave you aint going to meet a lot of Girls
     
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  11. the awakening

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    i dont understand how it Works did she know you before or was she a complete stranger ?
     
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  12. rgm

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    So for the sake of argument lets say nothing happens during day 91-100, what will you do?
    Just hope the answer is pushing on, good things will eventually come!
     
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    yeah good question. We were FB friends already, and had a couple of brief conversations over messenger. Nothing to out there.
     
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  14. EnterTheMatrix

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    If I don't get my soulmate on those days then I gave myself permission to talk with girls and can also have sex with them. Today is the 96th day
     
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  15. EnterTheMatrix

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    So I just need to meet them first from my side ? Or I should someone to come at me?
     
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  16. Monk mode means no social media as well as no orgasm etc.
     
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  17. EnterTheMatrix

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    But I am not doing strict monk mode which the original monks do , what I am doing is
    Nofap-Monkmode which I consider-NoPMO,Noedging,Nosex,and the cherry on top is that to not interact with girls from your side
     
  18. Sounds more like Hard Mode. You are doing a good job keep it up.
     
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  19. EnterTheMatrix

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    Thanks. And to tell you , Hardmode allows sex but not monk mode
    Easy Mode-NoP
    Hardmode-NoPMO
    MonkMode-NoPMO, Nosex
     
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  20. Hard mode is no pmo, no orgasm , no ejaculation and no sexual contact.
     

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