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Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by EnterTheMatrix, Feb 29, 2020.
Can vary person to person, some consider my Hardmode as Normal mode , and my monk mode as Hardmode
you cannot make your own rules up. if you do then you must explain what you are doing and not claim to be doing something that you are not
Life is about action and beeing pro active. You have more power than you realize but you need to take action. I’m going to tell you how I’m going to proceed for myself :
After 90days I m going to start looking on how to pick up girls and then I will go on the streets,bars,... everywhere and trying.
There will be failliors but exactly like my Nofap but with enough effort you can achieve anything.
Remember picking up girls is a skill the more you practice the better you become. It is game of number you have to practice a lot see it as learning Any new skill it is always uncomfortable at first : new language, skateboarding,dancing...
Calm down anyway he does what he wants it is not going to affect you
So I can claim to be doing nofap but in my version I can watch porn and masturbate.
I followed it by listening the rules of some YouTubers for that
But it will not be nofap in the first place , no(Fap) , fapping means masturbation, how can you compare my modes that I considered with you watching porn and masturbation and claiming you to be doing nofap . Is it that much wrong what I am currently doing?
Yes absolutely you know why because it only affect you and your future the consequences and the result are yours not anyone else
If i keep my own personal rules to myself then what you state is true but when I make those rules public then those rules have been put forward for discussion and examination.
By not following generally accepted rules for monk monde he is degrading others achievements.
By expressing the fact that he was on monk mode he is expecting some sort of praise for what is a very difficult thing to do.
I didn't say Monk Mode , I say
"Nofap-Monkmode",and I do unerstood your point, I will not refer it as something which contains Monk in it . So just tell me what should I call it now for not having sex,noPMO,Not talking with girls but only using social media?
Today after 15 mins I will be on 102nd day of Nofap-(NoPMO,Nosex, Noedging,Not interacting with girls)
And as I told before that I wanted to see if I would get a soulmate between 90-100days . So to tell you that I don't know about the soulmate , but today as I was in a elevator, one girl was there and a Boy and me. So to tell you that ,this never happened in 1-100 days but today on 101th day that girl talked with me on her own even if I was not looking at her , she preferred talking with me over that another boy who was also good looking. So what do you guys think about this ?
Clearly you state monk mode in your initial post.
Bro the only thing that matters is what you do.
i Need nobody to praise my effort but I understand your point to me each one has their Monk Mode.
Monk Mode is pretty subjective if you think about it .
because your supposed to not think about sex or fantaisize which is probably impossible the first days when you are fighting urges.
The purpose of the monastic life is to renounce desire - truly, joyfully renounce desire to find true freedom. If you're abstaining because you think you'll get what you want, you are strengthening desire and binding your happiness to getting what you want. That may be fine, but don't compare yourself to a monk.
i dont compare myself to a Monk but this how we call it MonK mode = hardmode.
It is true that there is a part of my that desire sex but am I strengthening my desire ? The early stage of nofap are still very basic which means no spiritual elevation yet .
So should I do it with no expectations to have plenty of girls after my recovery ? I have lot of expectations like better discipline maybe should I become disciplined now.
If you are working to try and get what you want, then you are strengthening your desire by taking it to be something real, rather than a product of your mind. Then if you don't get it, you may be disappointed.
No expectations at all. If you have expectations, you are closing the door to anything new. Once you start to improve yourself, it won't take long for you to understand what you need to do. Nobody will need to tell you. It's like turning on a light, looking around the room and seeing what you need to tidy up.
Okay now I edited it to Nofap-Monk mode or is it ok or should I give it another name or Hardmode
Soulmates don't exist.Save your soul first my dear friend.