i just need to vent a little. My girlfriend of 5 months, who I thought was the sweetest person in the world until now, is an even bigger drinker than I am. This surprised me because I always drank very heavily. I've been told by my doctor and others I trust I am more likely a problem drinker than an alcoholic, because I can seem to abstain any time I want, limit what I drink and so on. But I have drank more or less daily for about 25 years now so I decided to put it to the test and stop for 30 days starting last Monday morning. I'm on day 4 now and something strange happened. I am not craving alcohol but I am feeling tired and depressed. Girlfriend problems and a porn relapse today are surely aggravating these feelings, but I don't know which is cause and effect. My friend was in from out of town and met us at our favourite bar both Friday and Sunday. My girlfriend, who was drunk, was really heavily coming on to him. Really hurt me. We've talked it out and I realize I will sometimes make remarks about other women when we are out together, so I have to take responsibility for this situation. All of a sudden though she is cold and distant and I feel very lonely and depressed. This is not like me, I am usually outgoing and active in my sales job. I can barely move today and the only thing that got me excited was PMO, which I indulged in 3 times today. Help!