ALL I THINK ABOUT IS SEX AND PORN

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Jacs22, Oct 14, 2021.

  1. Jacs22

    Jacs22 Fapstronaut

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    I've been on nofap for a days, now, probably day 3 or 4 and i just dont know what to do with myself. im feeling numb and its the first time this numb feeling ever came to me. ive failed at nofap a lot of times, but im never quitting. last week's relapse was worse, i started reading a lot of stories about how straight men turned gay, i started reading a lot of them and they started turning me on and i went to an extend of trying buttplay. I am 100%, i have a girl whom i love with all my heart, nut im afarid if i fail at this nofap my relationship will ultimately die. PIED has pinned me into a corner, i cant get it up, and its really frustrating. but anyways, im confident that i wont fall this time around.
     
  2. Khan_Jee

    Khan_Jee Fapstronaut

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    you can do it bro . if i can do it . you can do it . you just hang in there . eventually it will get better . trust me
     
  3. Jacs22

    Jacs22 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man, it really means a lot coming from someone who understands.
     
  4. Robinthehood

    Robinthehood Fapstronaut

    I think in some ways people account porn for turning them gay or in to weird stuff, but I look at it like its just opened my eyes to some things id like to try. PMO is the thing that will get out of control, not your actual sex life.
     
  5. Jacs22

    Jacs22 Fapstronaut

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    you could be right, but i still think that it shouldnt bring feelings of shame, disappointment, fear and anxiety.
     
  6. Robinthehood

    Robinthehood Fapstronaut

    Yes absolutely right. Are you talking about how you feel when you view that stuff in porn or how you feel when you actually perform an act involving feet?
     
  7. Jacs22

    Jacs22 Fapstronaut

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    during the act, it feels good. but after everything the shame, guilt and anxiety just come down on me like a flood, i guess its because deep down i know i didnt do those acts out of my will but due to compulsiveness.
     
  8. Robinthehood

    Robinthehood Fapstronaut

    And you pay somebody or is it with your partner?
    What is the reason for the compulsiveness? Right now it could be that your sexual fulfillment can only come from that act, thats ok.
     
  9. Jacs22

    Jacs22 Fapstronaut

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    I do it alone, and the reason for the compulsiveness is P. Been hooked on this shit for 12 years straight.
     
  10. Khan_Jee

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    you are welcome man .we are here to support each other . and 3 years ago i was also an addict and now I am in recovery and has recovered very much . and you will too . Inshallah .
     
  11. Robinthehood

    Robinthehood Fapstronaut

    Ah OK, yes now I understand.
     
  12. Sylveon389

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    You're a man. Were men. It's a man thing.
     

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