never do nofap for someone .
what does that even mean ?
well I'll give you an example !
you are in school (or anywhere else) and you this really cute girl/boy and you get a weird feeling , you say to yourself I wanna marry them .
at first you will feel happy then that happiness fades away cuz in your mind they're perfect (no one's perfect btw , you never see the flaws in someone before you know them well)
and you're full of flaws . (everyone has flaws , no one is flawless except for the creator)
so now you'll feel regret when you watch adult content , when masturbate ETC.
you try to be the better version of yourself (for them) , so you started to work on yourself , they become your study motive , gym motive ETC .
you start to stalk them and try to know their interests , now let's say that you tried to chat with them , let's say that they gave you a chance and you started chatting with her .
after a while you shoot your shot and they say yes ! congrats .
if she said no or if she broke up with u or you found a red flag which made you break up with her .
you may lose your nofap motive cuz you only started for her .
and that's what happened to me she didn't like me back and I went back to the same hole , when I started for myself I never went back .
I'm not saying don't try to get a partner I'm just saying it's you before anyone .
whish everyone on this journey success and luck <3
sorry for my English it's not my first language
what does that even mean ?
well I'll give you an example !
you are in school (or anywhere else) and you this really cute girl/boy and you get a weird feeling , you say to yourself I wanna marry them .
at first you will feel happy then that happiness fades away cuz in your mind they're perfect (no one's perfect btw , you never see the flaws in someone before you know them well)
and you're full of flaws . (everyone has flaws , no one is flawless except for the creator)
so now you'll feel regret when you watch adult content , when masturbate ETC.
you try to be the better version of yourself (for them) , so you started to work on yourself , they become your study motive , gym motive ETC .
you start to stalk them and try to know their interests , now let's say that you tried to chat with them , let's say that they gave you a chance and you started chatting with her .
after a while you shoot your shot and they say yes ! congrats .
if she said no or if she broke up with u or you found a red flag which made you break up with her .
you may lose your nofap motive cuz you only started for her .
and that's what happened to me she didn't like me back and I went back to the same hole , when I started for myself I never went back .
I'm not saying don't try to get a partner I'm just saying it's you before anyone .
whish everyone on this journey success and luck <3
sorry for my English it's not my first language