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Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Savedbyblood, Nov 23, 2016.

  1. Savedbyblood

    Savedbyblood New Fapstronaut

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    So I've been on a NoFap journey for a while now. Last summer I knocked out visual porn and replaced it with my own thoughts, erotic stories, and even a couple times nothing but a mechanical process with no material just a blank stare at the ceiling or walls.
    Now however I've moved on to trying to stop fapping all together. I found this very very interesting seeing what has begun to happen. Now before I get into that, I'm single and overweight, and to be honest I'm losing my hair at 19. Life especially the girl category is sucking right now, however I've begun eating healthier and I think I'm on a path to losing weight and looking better. I very much crave a relationship, however I haven't had one that's ever been real or last longer then a month. Now back to the change stopping fapping has done. I rarely dream, or rather remember the dreams. Maybe usually 2 dreams a month if that. Well I stopped masturbating 11/13/16. And sense then I've started having a lot more dreams, I'm dreaming almost every night, and I remember them when I wake up. The first dream I had I kissed a girl I knew, the second dream I was hugging another girl in a bikini and Idk who she was but my hand was roaming. In the last dream I saw one of my friends (female) half naked and we had this huge makeout session and that was the last dream. I feel like this is my body saying hey, I want a girl, a relationship. I also think that it's clear that masturbation has filled the void of a relationship and without it there my mind goes mad. Keeping my NoFap Goa is super hard especially after dreams like these.. does anyone have opinion or notice anything maybe I don't? Are these dreams significant?
     
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  2. Frühlingstimme

    Frühlingstimme Fapstronaut

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    Please less details on sex dreams next time. I skipped some parts of thext.

    Now, welcome. You are pretty much like me. Except that I'm older, and I spent so much time fapping that now it doesn't matter anymore. I'll be alone. Browse the site, get advice and good luck on your journey.

    Dreaming of that means you're lonely, or nothing. Dreams are just dreams don't over think it.
     
  3. Dziki007

    Dziki007 Fapstronaut

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    I belive dreams reflect our desires, subconcious, emotions in our life its like mirror. I had time when i was depressed, sad, anxious and i had dreams where i was dieing all the time or I was killing someone. Other time when I delt with depression and went in bliffful state i dreamed only about making love with girls. I belive every dream has a meaning and i started write my dreams to intepretate it. There is mystical method which allow you to control dreams, its called "lucid dreams" im very intrested in it as i experienced one time such a dream and it was wonderful, i was out of my body.

    On no fapp/porn streak there is very common to have vivid dreams, if you cut all sexual thoughts your mind will handle it adding sexual dreams and thats okey.
     
  4. I had my first kiss on the lips dream on this journey :)
     

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