Already not watching porn, will nofap do me any good ?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Buriza, Apr 17, 2020.

  1. Buriza

    Buriza New Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys,
    I'm a 22 yo single male studying for a Master's in computer science.
    I do not watch porn however I find myself lacking energy/motivation.
    I was thinking it might be linked to the fact I masturbate every few days.
    In your experience, do you think nofap could help me become more motivated
    in general ?
    Thank you for your answers.
     
  2. gagate

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    Masturbation always leads to a loss of physical and mental energy, with porn the damage is just higher.
     
  3. Yeah, the power is in celibacy. Porn has little impact on like immune system and attraction or fitness impact.
    Celibacy is the real game. Porn is just an addiction. But ejaculating is the heroimethcoca drug. Porn just leads you to it and we watch porn in the first place because of a void in life. Or having no real life in the first place :/ but ejaculating and physical stimuli addiction is beyond that....even politicians, superstars are addicted to it helpless!!

    That is the real drug and it really makes an impact on your fitness, sharpness, health, damn it everything. But not 1 day, 1 week, 1 month. Longer...longer game, bigger gains.
     
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  4. Fapping is also a huge dopamine release. I would do nofap if i were you
    I did fapping without porn a long time and still had very negaive effects. I had low energy etc.
     
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  5. Wanktard

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    Yes it will make you more motivated and outgoing and want to get job done, i felt less guilt and the idea of suicide not looking good anymore,
    im on easy mode by the way
     
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  6. Buriza

    Buriza New Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, thanks a lot for your reply. I realized not having an easy way to please myself will make me more motivated to become a better/more attractive person as well as being more outgoing and talkative to girls. Therefore I will try to nofap for as long as I can while continuing educating myself and maintaining a physical activity and see where it leads me.

    I really hope you find something in life worth living for. My big brother killed himself on the 6th of January 2015, it was by far the most painful year of my existence. You seem to be on the right track though so that's really good. Good luck mate
     
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  7. FY_33

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    well for me it decrease motivation, because i am natural born high lust/libido.
    But, i can say its worth it. Being horny is a blessing to male.
    O/Cumming give really a damn good pleasure, and more intense the more you abstain from it and doing it with women.
    My advice, get used to it.
    Not watching P is great. I am 29 weeks without P and seeing a slight of women semi private part give me a feeling like first time watching P lul
     
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  8. FY_33

    FY_33 Fapstronaut

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    I am sorry to read this, i know masturbation is a way to coping with stress. But i know its not worth it. There might be a stress build up, but... i know you can do it!
     
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  9. Buriza

    Buriza New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your encouragement mate :)
    I'm one week in and going strong, I have high energy level and cannot stand to stay behind my computer playing videogames anymore. I workout everyday, do my work at home and also have the energy to read books. I'm at the point where if I don't spend enough energy doing productive things in one day, this energy will manifest itself as sexual urges.
    I had doubts about the benefits of NoFap for me since I didn't watch porn and didn't masturbate more than 2 to 3 times a week but it turns out simply masturbating already takes away a lot of your energy/motivation and self-confidence.
    I think i'll keep this way of life and never turn back man, pleasuring yourself is just not worth it but you have to stay away from it to see this.
    Take care FY_33 :)
     
  10. FY_33

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    Thanks for the reply, while i masturbated yesterday due to stress of accidentaly look at sexy ads, and because its been a long time i look at sexy stuff, my head keep popping the image. So to calm myself, the only way is to M.
    But i am back on track, no nut Ramadhan:)

    I M now if forced, in my religion, my case: the wife should please(re: give him an O regardless of service) his husband when this happen to calm him

    Yes, me too have big energy since i am an ex soccer athlete. My phsycologist said i must search a job that eat up much energy but not being far from my wife later when married.

    The key is, whenever you M, dont feel guilty. Physicological sides matter:). But better not to M at all
     
  11. Promo

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    Did you have pe
     
  12. Promo

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    Pls who And explain monk mode to me
    I'm new
     
  13. Monu420

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    Shave your head and wear orange clothes and cut your dick . You will be in monk mode.
     

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